(Closed) Have you seen your man cry?

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Post # 16
133 posts
Blushing bee

The only time I have seen him cry is when he was telling me about how his mom passed away. 

Post # 17
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2017 - Bahamas

He doesn’t cry often, but when he does, I usually cry to because he breaks my heart. 

Last night he cried because we had an argument which left me feeling like I was alone and not a priority in that moment. I was explaining to him how he made me feel and he started crying. I hate that I made him feel so bad for his actions… I knew he already felt bad after he realized what he had done, but I just wanted to explain where I was coming from (I did react pretty strongly, with good reason). It broke my heart, but I needed t commmunicate with him so that it didn’t happen again. 


Side note: I was never a crier until I met him… now I cry all of the time. I think it has to do with the fact that I was just used to “Dealing” on my own and now he’s given me a place to turn to so I get emotional. Weird though

Post # 18
716 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

A few times. When we broke up for a few days and he wanted to get back together, when we had to put our dog down and when he shared something traumatic from his childhood.

Post # 19
499 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Greenspot Farms

Yes! He can get emotional over movies or when we have really deep, honest conversations. I absolutely adore how vulnerable he is.

Post # 20
257 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

In 4 years, I don’t think I have ever seen him cry. Once I think I saw him wipe a tear when his dad went to the emergency room, but I never asked him about it. My heart would break if I saw him cry. 

As for me, he has seen the water works plenty of times.

Post # 21
3212 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

Three times. Once when we had a slight boating accident and I had a head injury that needed a trip to emergency, once when I had a horrible allergic reaction in a country where he didn’t speak the language and there really weren’t ambulances (that was scary for both of us), and once when we were at his grandmother’s funeral. πŸ™

Post # 22
1770 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

A few times- during fights, while I was walking down the aisle, and when he walk telling me how much he hates that his mom smokes cigarettes.

Post # 23
9519 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

we were friends for 7 years before we dated. We slept together one night and in the next morning, he does not remember either, and cried when I took it as a one night stand. It broke his heart. His parents heard about it as well as a couple mutual friends. That was in 2009. He teared up when he proposed, 2014 and at the wedding 2015. Usually I’m the teary one.

When his mother had a heart attack as well. We went to see Brave the next day and he cried during the scene where she was losing her mother. I felt so bad. It was 3 in the afternoon and was consoling a big tough man in the middle of a Disney movie. He is a Ron Swanson but big moments make him cry

Post # 24
728 posts
Busy bee

Yes. Once when I was going to leave about 5 years ago, and once when we buried his mother. πŸ™

Post # 25
1054 posts
Bumble bee

Just once in 6 years together! We got in a giant fight about 6 mo after we started dating and it had been a long day for him. It also ended up being the first time we said I love you, so he hates that memory πŸ™ he also swears that he cried one single tear at the end of Les Mis, but I’m pretty sure that’s not true. Lol

Post # 26
184 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Twice. Once in the early stages of our relationship. He had had a “few” beers and forgot about plans we made. I expressed my displeasure at being forgotten. He felt horrible and told me how I was too good for him and cried. The second time was discussing the death of his mom. πŸ™

Post # 27
1604 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Yes, during a few fights, and whenever he watches any sad sports movies (Any Given Sunday, We Are Marshall, etc). 

Post # 28
208 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I’ve only ever seen DH cry because of laughing so hard at me that he teared up so much. Other than that, DH is not a crier at all. I’ve never really seen him cry because of sadness/anger/emotions. Though there was one time when we were lying in bed and talked about our future plans together (we were still BF-GF at the time), then he closed his eyes and i saw that they started tearing up a bit, but then he rolled with his back towards me as if he didn’t want me to see him cry so I didn’t ask about it either. I wish i could see his emotional tears more often though. 

Post # 29
176 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

The first time I seen him cry was on our wedding day. The second time I seen him cry was when we first watched our wedding dvd. It was so sweet πŸ™‚ 

Post # 30
86 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Yes, once when we had a big fight and the other time when we had to put our dog to sleep. πŸ™

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