(Closed) Have you used the pull out method?

posted 6 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: Would you trust the pull out method (POM) to avoid pregnancy?
    I have solely used the POM. : (158 votes)
    42 %
    I have used the POM along with another form of contraception. : (80 votes)
    21 %
    I would consider using the POM at some point, but haven't yet. : (24 votes)
    6 %
    I would never use the POM. : (112 votes)
    30 %
  • Post # 17
    Member
    509 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    yeah did not work, got pregnant with my oldest child

     

    Post # 18
    Member
    2890 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would never rely on that. Fiance and I are childfree. 96% effective is too dangerous for us, since we wouldn’t want to keep the child, and there is no way I want to go through an abortion in my life. I’m consequent with my choice not to have kids, therefore I will not rely on BC that I can not trust (and I have no control over) until he gets a vasectomy, or I get my tubes tied (or both). 

    Post # 19
    Member
    923 posts
    Busy bee

    we’ve used the pull out method sucessfully for over a year and a half, but if I get pregnant it wouldn’t be the end of the world. If getting pregnant would be terrible or something I would get  an IUD

    Post # 20
    Member
    14926 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    Yea, stupidly for 7+ years with my x-bf.  Fortunately, I never got pregnant.

    Post # 21
    Member
    5892 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Only time I have was  with a guy who literally could not O inside. He had to pull out. I knew there was 100% chance he was never going to make a mistake.

    Post # 22
    Member
    1409 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    I think when this doesn’t work for people they forget one key component… You must pull out. All the way. It’s pretty easy to do. 😉

    Post # 23
    Member
    838 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    We used pull-out solely for our whole relationship (minus first few months). We would also leave him in there during the week of my period. Because it worked so well I thought it was possible we would have trouble conceiving because maybe it was one of us… Nope! Turns out the POM just worked very well for us!

    Post # 25
    Member
    8482 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2014

    We do it. I cannot stand the feel of condoms and I dont want BC.

    I’m one of those people that wouldnt be upset if I got pregnant though.

    Post # 26
    Member
    522 posts
    Busy bee

    I absolutely do not trust the pull out method. It’s great if you can use it and trust it, but I am personally too paranoid. 

    Post # 27
    Member
    904 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Fiance and I use the pull-out method exclusively. I was on BCP for years and years until I had adverse effects. Condoms are well…condoms. So, we pull-out.

    However, we are not DEAD SET on not getting pregnant; if it happens, it happens.

    Post # 28
    Member
    1370 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Darling Husband and I used the POM exclusively for 2 years with no incident, but we were okay at that time if we got pregnant. We never had any issues.

    Now, we’re trying to decide if we ever want kids and we’re leaning toward no so I got an IUD inserted. Once I decided I didn’t want to have kids right now (and potentially don’t want kids at all) – I got a more reliable form of BC.

    Post # 29
    Member
    227 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    @RedPandas:  Pull out method for 7 years, no problem. Decided we didn’t mind getting pregnant and we ready for a little one, so we had lots of fun…and we got our perfect little baby boy 🙂

    Post # 30
    Member
    756 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @AB Bride:  You mean using multiple forms of birth control? 

    Post # 31
    Member
    1564 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @KoiKove:  really? I wonder how he will have children then lol

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