- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2016
I seriously thought about going annonybee for this, but figured I might as well own it. I aplogize for the length. I am mostly asking for advice on what to do now, and partially to just talk to someone about it who’s responce will be something other than ” high five for having great sex!” ( Both of my MOH’s said this….)
Major Too Much Information Alert….
So Fiance and I have a good sex life. It has slowed down from us being just so tired from work and school, so when we do get a chance to make love it is…. intence.
We are very careful, BCP, condoms and pull out on my fertile days. We are both in graduate school and we are engaged. And since we both still live at home with our parents, we try very hard to be consiederate of our respecive familys. The rules at my house are very clear, no sex, no sleeping even in the same bed, we respect their wishes as it is my parents house.
FI’s house is much more relaxed, especially since we got engaged. I know that his parents are not stupid, they know that we have sex, but we do not flaunt it infront of their faces, so it is more of an out of sight out of mind thing.
When we do engage in adult activitys we make sure no one is home, and that we have a while before FILS come home from work and school.
The other day was the same deal, no one home…. yay happy fun times. We did not hear Future Father-In-Law come home ( at 1 30 pm, he is usally not home till 5…) the olny reason we knew he was there was after we were done I looked out the window and saw his dad’s van. There was no way he did not hear us as I was more…. vocal than usal ….
Last night Future Father-In-Law tried to bust FI’s chops i think because he yelled up the stairs ” FI’s name, I just wanted to tell you I am home!” I was not there.
I do not know what to do. Should I apologize? Should we pretend that it didn’t happen? Should we wait to see if they say something to us? I am not ashamed about having sex, but I am embarrased. I don’t want them to think I’m a ho… but we have known each other for 8 years, been togeter for 3 and engaged for 6 months…
Have you ever been caught bees? How did you handle it?