(Closed) Have your parents met his?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

At the wedding. I’m not kidding, they are 1400 miles away from one another and it’s just not practical for them to get together beforehand. Honestly, after the wedding they’ll probably not have any contact with one another anyway, so I don’t see what the big deal is…

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

We arranged dinner so our parents could meet for the first time about a month or two after we got engaged. They’ve seen each other several times since then, but not on as much of a formal level.

I had a friend of mine tell me that her and her husband’s parents didn’t meet until the wedding rehearsal (after the couple had already been together for 5 years and the families lived within about 10 miles of each other). I didn’t want the same for myself. I wanted our parents to know each other, even if only a little, and feel comfortable with one another by the time the wedding rolls around.

Post # 5
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Our parents haven’t met yet. My parents will probably meet his dad/step mom at some point before the wedding, but probably won’t meet his mom until the rehearsal dinner. 

Post # 6
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572 posts
Busy bee

I dont think we really planned on intriducing our families it just kind of happened. My mom is the same as yours so we thought it would be better if we did it when there were a lot of other family members together.

It wasnt as bad as we thought it would be, my grandmother and his mother ended up getting along great. So, who knows what will happen, but good luck!

Post # 7
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873 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

At both the Korean and Canadian weddings.  The Korean wedding will be fine as my mum will be staying with us.  The Canadian wedding will be a whole different story as his parents will be staying at my mum’s house for two weeks.  Oh the cultural and linguistic gulfs.  It’s going to be a very very interesting time…

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Our parents met right before our 1 year mark. Mine came into town to go to the horse races and we decided to do it then. It was really important to me for them to meet before we ever got engaged because eventually they’ll be spending Christmas and maybe even Thanksgiving together (yep, I’m going to be… some kind of zilla about holidays because I REFUSE to split them up once the grandmothers who can’t travel pass on). I was SO nervous, because our parents are pretty different, and almost got SICK on the way there. It totally ended up being okay, no problems at all thanks to a “no religion, no politics” rule we established earlier and his mom ended up giving a SPEECH about how much she loves me.

I really do recommend that they meet eachother beforehand. WIth all the pressure already on that day, emotions will be running high and it’ll just be easier if you get it out of the way before the actual wedding. Surly they’ll be on their best behavior.

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

My parents first met my Future Mother-In-Law before we were engaged when she visited us. Since we were suppose to get married in August and my parents already had their tickets they met my future family in law this summer in California. They saw each other again this fall. It’s great since they live 3000 miles apart. The only hard part is the whole translating part where I have to sit next to my mom and translate pretty much everything from French to English.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We’ve been together for 5 years and our parents haven’t yet met. whoops. It’s not necessarily intentional as FI’s parents live in upstate NY and mine are on the South Shore and we all have crazy schedules…but are we pushing the meeting? uh, no. Will they meet before the wedding? Maybe…lol. At least I’ve met his parents/stayed with them and he’s stayed at my parents plenty and we all get along!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

By the way they get along really well even with the language barrier

Post # 12
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306 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

We’re from the same hometown and dated in high school (I know, super corny), so our parents have known each other for years. I’m SO thankful at this point, as there is absolutly no stress on our families getting along, we already know they do.

Post # 13
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333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ours will meet next week at Thanksgiving … *gulp*  I’m really nervous, because my mom can be kind of introverted and his dad is … loud.  I’m just going to keep the wine handy and hope for the best. 

Post # 14
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Ours didn’t meet until we were engaged….right around the 3.5 year mark.

Post # 15
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

our parents met 5 months after we started dating, around the time that we moved in together. they had actually known each other from years ago, we belong to the same temple, but his parents quit the temple so they hadn’t seen each other in years. i don’t remember why we decided that time, but i think there was something going on at the temple that they both wanted to go to, so we all got together.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

We’re working on this now.  They have met before but only at our graduatuion and they didn’t really speak much.  My mom and his mom have completely different personalities and unfortunately I’m closer to his mom than my own.  UGH.  Ths whole thing is gonna make me sick.

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