(Closed) Having a bad waiting day

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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1059 posts
Bumble bee

* Hugs * Sorry to hear that. Just remind yourself that it is only a matter of time now, and try and distract yourself by doing other things.

Don’t be like me – today I didn’t bring up engagement stuff for the whole day and tried to focus on myself and such and my SO asked me if I still liked him. Clearly I am too good at focusing!

Post # 4
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429 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@KLovesA:  *hugs* I know this must be an awful feeling. Just try to remember this, okay:

You will be getting married, and he WILL propose. If you focus on it too much and worry constantly about when it will happen, it will ruin the actual moment for you because all you’ll be able to think is “finally!” Also, if you’re looking for it at every turn, how’s he going to do something really great? You’ll see it coming a mile away!

It will happen, and soon. Maybe just work on some light wedding plans in the meantime to take your mind off it? DIY projects actually take a fair amount of mental energy! Something to keep your hands busy might help. 

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