(Closed) Having a bad week

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee

Well, that last part was rude of her to say. She didn’t need to add that.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Some people really have no filter.  It was definitely rude of her to say that!!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

Honestly!!  I agree with PP.  Who the hell is she to say that?  Ugg

 

((hugs))

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

How rude!!!  I’ve been with my SO for 11 years and no one has been that rude to me about it.  It’s none of their business!!  Everyones relationship is different and I know several couple who have choosen not to marry.  What does she have to say about that?  Ha!!  Sorry your week is not going well.  Hope it gets better soon!!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee

pretty rude of her- here are some hugs for you… *hugs*

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Wow – if it makes you feel any better when I was just out of high school it came out at the department store I worked in that I was still a virgin at 18 (stayed one till 22).  After some pretty light joking about it, one lady felt she needed to tell me to make sure I didn’t “have any cobwebs in there”.  At work. In front of other people.  O_o  I think I could hear crickets somewhere, chirping.

6 years is not the kiss of death to your chances for marraige, especially depending on the age you started dating.  Of my friends who are married, one couple got married at 7 years, another just did at 11, granted, I’m still wating at longer than that, but our situation is kinda odd.  Whne he’s ready, it happens.  It’s hard not to compare yourself to others, and not to be reminded you’re waiting when a lot of others are getting to the altar, but it’s not a race, it’s your life. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee

That last part was extremely rude of her. That’s something she should have kept to herself. It’s none of her business anyway.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I agree with PP’s, it is none of her business and rude of her to say anything at all. My SO and I have been together for 6 years as well but luckily we haven’t had anyone really say anything other than our families asking when we are going to get engaged lol Hang in there, hopefully it happens soon. *hugs*

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