(Closed) Having a cheaper wedding, but a nicer honeymoon

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Nicer wedding or dream honeymoon?



  • Post # 3
    5653 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I don’t think tables or chairs are going to matter as much to you down the road as the memories you’ll make on an amazing honeymoon!

    Post # 4
    3081 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Dream honeymoon 100%

    Post # 6
    487 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Honeymoon! We’re hoping to do this. We’re having 2 ceremonies (one in April and one in September – different cultures) that we’re being super careful with money on (and accepting all help offered lol) with the hopes we will have enough for our dream honeymoon which is currently a secret haha. Good luck!

    Post # 7
    3771 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 1999

    As long as you are skimping to the point that it will negatively impact your guests (cutting back on food or drink, fewer chairs then people, etc) then I think it would be fine to put the money towards the honeymoon.

    Post # 8
    2280 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Honeymoon, without a doubt! A wedding’s just a day, a honeymoon can become a dream trip. 🙂

    Post # 9
    4108 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Honeymoon for sure.

    Post # 10
    2818 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Honeymoon, hands down!

    Post # 11
    3218 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

    Do you really want to go to Europe? If that’s been your dream, then heck yes go for it. If you’re just making a minor upgrade to the honeymoon (say if Mexico and Europe rank equally for you) I’d splurge on a massage in Mexico or an all-inclusive resort and upgrade a few of the wedding things. Or even just save the money! Obviously, you’re going to remember both, but I wouldn’t spend money on a trip unless it was a total dream of mine. 

    Post # 12
    11267 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2012

    @mcj040916:  that depends, how long is your honeymoon? 1 wk, 2 wk or more?  if you only have 1 week, then don’t waste your money on europe. you won’t have enough time there.  think about length of flight there and back and jetlag.   if you have more than 2 weeks for your hm then yes to europe.  if you have less than 2 weeks, then go to a resort in mexico but upgrade to an adults only, all-inclusive, with concierge service and room service all day. 

    Post # 13
    3218 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: February 2012

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    @mypinkshoes:  also a really good point! 

    Post # 14
    1445 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    Honeymoon, definitely. This is what we’re doing-having a small, simple wedding and putting the extra funds towards our honeymoon. We love to travel though.

    Post # 15
    3617 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2011

    We upgraded our linens. The day after the wedding I was hounding all my friends and family members for photos of the reception space so I could make sure they actually gave us the upgraded linens that I paid for because guess what, I DIDN’T EVEN NOTICE!! Which means, none of your guests will notice either. Go for the honeymoon!

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