(Closed) Having a hard time not showing FI my dress.

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I feel you! It’s driving me bonkers having to wait another year for him to see, especially when I tell him absolutely everything.

Your not alone! ๐Ÿ™‚ Just remember it will all be worth it to see his reaction on the big day! 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Haha I’m the same! I tried so hard not to show him and that lasted 3 hours lol. He wanted to see it and since we’re not very traditional I decided to show him. He only saw a pic of me in the sample unaltered and not all dolled up, our wedding is 10-11 months out so I’m sure he’ll forget anyways ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Haha I’m the same! I tried so hard not to show him and that lasted 3 hours lol. He wanted to see it and since we’re not very traditional I decided to show him. He only saw a pic of me in the sample unaltered and not all dolled up, our wedding is 10-11 months out so I’m sure he’ll forget anyways ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I’m having a pretty hard time too! I’m DYING to show him the dress I bought….and the shoes! Just a few weeks and I don’t have to keep it a secret anymore

Post # 7
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387 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@IUrebekah3RT:  I find it also really hard! I keep asking him if i can, but he refuses.

Post # 8
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157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Omg. I feel the same way. I want to show him soooo badly. Just a bit longer now!

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My husband knew all about my dress.

Post # 10
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1934 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Mine has seen a pic of me, in my dress, from a fitting.  I showed him.  We suck at surprises.  Lol

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

I keep showing my SO all the dresses I like. I can’t keep anything from him either.

Post # 12
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1038 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Well I came home with my dress the day I bought it and Fiance was there, so he saw dress.  He saw a picture of it on a model as well the night before(I wanted his opinions of a few dresses I already knew I was trying on).  He just hasn’t see a pic of ME in it. 

 

I’m glad I showed him dresses I liked….cause a few that I was kinda thinking about looking at, he immediately told me “that is UGLY”, lol

Post # 13
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386 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Oh my, i share everthing, so it is hard holding on to this one. 

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I was exactly the same, but I was able to keep it to myself with a few close calls. He was very happy that I did, and even cried when he first saw me.

Post # 15
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768 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I had an incredibly hard time with this. I was incredibly insecure shopping and really wanted him there with me as he’s a calming influence for me. Then I wanted to show him the dress for the 8 months after I ordered it. I held out though and he was suprised on our wedding day – so I think it was worth it ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 16
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Before I went to try dresses on I showed Fiance a few pictures just to get some feedback and see how far I could take it with a color. He didn’t have too much to say other than he didn’t like the PINK dresses but the Lazaro sherbet color I ended up getting was just fine. So he saw the dress – on the model long before I ended up buying it and he saw the sketch Lazaro did for me of (which doesn’t really give too much away).

 

Its been about two months since I bought it and the desire to show him has decreased a bit, I am sure it will come up when the dress comes in and I go for fittings.

 

 

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