Having a hard time – TTC

posted 2 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

Are there any alternatives to the medication your Darling Husband is on? Has he talked to his doctor? Having no sex drive is going to impact your relationship beyond just TTC.

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

mandakay0021 :  My Darling Husband is on medication too… he was actually on medication that made it nearly impossible for him to ejaculate, but overall, his sex drive was nearly nothing.  After our first cycle trying, I found him a doctor he could feel comfortable talking to (no joke, this doctor had hundreds of reviews about how well she listens).  He switched medication, and now we’re able to BD a few times within the fertile window, but his sex drive is still lower than I would like…. I honestly feel like we ONLY BD at that time 🙁

We’re 6 months/7 cycles in, so almost as long as you, and it’s just not happening for us either.  My bbt just plummeted this morning, so now I’m waiting for AF and to go into my 8th cycle.  I understand the frustration.  I actually just emailed my doctor this morning to ask if there’s anything we can do.

My Darling Husband has an appt with his doctor in July… he’s going to ask if he can get an SA ordered.

Best of luck, Bee <3  So many of us are going through these kinds of difficulties.  Feel free to vent away.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

mandakay0021 :  I know the withdrawals are horrible… Darling Husband went through it too 🙁 but it takes time to find something that works well for him. I do recommend he talk to a doctor. It will help his mood and your marriage.

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