(Closed) Having a moment….

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2011

be patience…. don’t rush anything, the time will come. It will feel good when you least expected. 🙂

Post # 4
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

I have had PLENTY of those moments


take deep breaths and do something nice for youself to calm down/

Post # 5
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116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

My boyfriend always says “Are you going to marry me?”  – ya know in that sweet way and I refuse to say yes – I just say “If you ever ask me” 😀 Not the same as yelling at him to do something about it – but defiantly puts it out there! Good luck and hang in there!

Post # 6
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21 posts
Newbee

Yes, all the time! on a daily basis! makes me feel like crap that he can’t just do it already. and then people say to me.. ‘why do you think he hasn’t done it yet’.. oh I don’t know maybe he just doesn’t love me enough! ha. I know we will be engaged soon but every week feels like a year when you are waiting xx

Post # 7
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Busy bee

@Summer82:

There are times where I think “You know, I am a beautiful, smart, fun, kind woman. You would be lucky to have me buddy!” LOL. I do get a little resentful about the waiting. To an extent I think it is romantic and sweet. Still, there is a part of me that thinks “Why am I the only one who seems super excietd about marriage? Why am I the only one chomping at the bit to put a ring on it?” I KNOW my bf loves me and I know he would be devastated if he lost me. However, I also know that he isn’t on some message board right now agnonizing about when he will get to marry me! I guess men just are built differently.

Post # 8
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185 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Yes somtimes I do…and I have strong desires to throw and smash plates at the same time. But then I take a deep breath and tell myself it’s coming! Hang in there – it will happen!

@jackndiane: I like your post – it describes exactly how I feel!

Post # 9
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810 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

All the time.  I love the quote from When Harry Met Sally, “When you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” 

Sometimes I just want to grab him by the shoulders and give him a little shake, and then in an Arnold Schwarzenegger voice say, “What are you waiting for?! Do it! Do it now!!”

 

I refrain myself though, because I believe that would have a reverse effect on my situation. 😉

Post # 10
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870 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@jackndiane: That’s very much how I feel too, except sometimes I start to doubt the relationship too. I’m a great catch, we’ve been together for years, basically live as husband and wife, yet he doesn’t seem particuarly interested or excited to get married. What’s the deal? I know he doesn’t want to break up and that he loves me a ton, but what’s the issue if all these things are true? Is it just a guy thing? That some guys just aren’t going to be excited/gung-ho about getting married?

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