(Closed) Having a problem!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I don’t think you can keep his mom from visiting based on your relationship status… that’s not going to endear you to him or his family.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

@missjuli: You’re afraid to tell your boyfriend that your ready to take your relationship to the next level?

Post # 5
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1077 posts
Bumble bee

Get up and go do something, sitting and stewing will make you feel worse! Have you met his mom before? Why don’t you want to visit with her until you’re engaged?

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

You should visit, consider this a baby step toward the next step (visiting as a couple). I don’t think you should hold back just because you want to get engaged now. That doesn’t make sense and will only make your relationship strained in you engage in these hidden ultimatums.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Yeah I think we need some more information here. Why don’t you want to visit with his mom until you are engaged? Most people meet each others’ parents while you are still dating, when things are usually serious. You should be happy he wants you to spend time with his mom, that is unless there are some family issues. 

I hope you are feeling better though! I agree with others, you need to find something to do to keep your mind off of what is bothering you. 

Post # 8
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Um, seriously? Why?

Being engaged is somehting that comes along after two people feel they are ready to commit to each other for the rest of their lives.

It has nothing to do with visiting a relative.

I think you might need some help, sorry.

Post # 10
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645 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@missjuli : Sucks, don’t it? You’re not alone darlin, you have at least one companion. And I work with his mom. Try and find the humor in it, it makes it a little easier. 

If you need to chat in your desperate times you can always message me. I’m on here quite often 😉

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