(Closed) having a talk with the SO

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
7272 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@citysparkle:  Good luck! I think you made the right move not talking about it right when he was talking about the house. You don’t want it to be an angry conversation. You’re certainly not pressuring him– 6 years is a long time to be together and not be engaged!

If I were you I would say that I’d like to buy a house together, but want to do it as a married couple. There are lots of good legal reasons for this! But most of all, you want to be settled and celebrate with your families & friends. I can see why he’s sort of skipping over that part since you already live together and after 6 years certainly have a life together. But it’s an important step mentally, emotionally and legally to get married. 

Post # 4
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1352 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

Good luck!  Let us know how the talk goes!

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