(Closed) Having A Tough Day Today

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
46647 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

rosegoldgirl:  Your feelings are perfectly normal and acceptable. In the light of the loss of your two babies, it would be unusual if you did not have these feelings. I am so sorry you lost your babies.


Post # 3
4941 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

rosegoldgirl:   *hugs*  I am sorry for your loss, and fully understand your emotions about your boss’ situation.     My prayers will be with you and your husband that in time you will have beautiful, healthy children, and they will be all the more loved for the wonderful care you take of yourself and of them.  


Post # 4
43 posts
  • Wedding: September 2015

rosegoldgirl:  I’m so sorry for your loss! I can’t ever imagine the pain you are feeling but please never think it is your fault! 

Post # 6
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

rosegoldgirl: …And here I am whining about my long and shitty day. i feel like a whiny brat after reading your post. there isn’t any rhyme or reason for stuff sometimes and it hurts even more when it seems unjust but hopefully you and your husband will soon have the beautiful family you want. Hugs and best wishes to you. 

Post # 7
5226 posts
Bee Keeper

rosegoldgirl:  (((((((hugs)))))))) 

I know there is nothing I can say to help you, but you are in my thoughts. Sometimes it’s good to just be able to say “I’m hurting, nothing will fix it, listen anyway.” I think you are incredibly strong. I pray peace and comfort over you.


Post # 8
9548 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’m so sorry you’re having such a rough day. It’s totally understandable, given your situation. I don’t knw of anything useful I can say, except this is all normal. And it’ll get better. And I’m sending hugs and warm thoughts!

Post # 9
2110 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

i am so sorry for your loss! Its ok to have rough days and wonder why things happened, its all part of healing. I hopeyou can find some peace.

Post # 11
6 posts
  • Wedding: April 2015

I have never been in your situation, but your words struck a chord with me. They echo some of the feelings I have about my dad’s passing, especially when I see men who abuse their bodies and treat people like crap (neither of which my dad did) live decades longer than he did.

I share this not to compare or to make this about myself, but just to say I understand, and that there’s nothing wrong with how you’re feeling. It just feels unfair, doesn’t it?

I agree with the previous posters — you are seriously strong. I will pray for you and for you and your husband to be blessed with children in the future.

Post # 12
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

You are so strong. 

It’s the hardest thing to accept when others get things that we didn’t – let alone be happy for them. Take a day off, get a massage, eat some icecream. Do whatever you need to do to get through today and make tomorrow a bit better. Sending hugs xx

Post # 13
128 posts
Blushing bee

I’m so sorry you and Darling Husband had to go through losing your babies. I’ve been there a few times (never with twins though). It just wasn’t meant to be this time. Take your time with your grieving, and then when you guys feel ready, try again. Hopefully the last time will be the last time you have a hardship and the next pregnancy you bring home a beautiful little one (or ones). 

Its been 2 1/2 years since I lost my last baby and I still feel the pain. It’s a small pain, but it’s there and will always be. And that’s ok. I still feel it from my first one I lost about 6 yrs ago. I don’t think you ever totally get over it. 

Post # 14
1265 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

rosegoldgirl:  I’m so sorry about the loss of your twin girls. It makes perfect sense that the situation with your boss would arouse these feelings and I think feeling sorry for yourself is very appropriate. I hope you don’t feel the need to judge yourself for having a particularly difficult few days with this right now, and instead are kind and gentle on yourself. Sending you all my warmest wishes and support. 

Post # 15
768 posts
Busy bee

I am so sorry for your loss 🙁 

It is completely normal to feel this way and it will take a while to heal. Sending you hugs. 

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