Post # 1
We last discussed anything related to us getting engaged right before New Year’s. Then I decided to take the V-Day challenge and shut my mouth. He told me it would happen by spring when the last conversation happened. I’m just worried that he will think that I am fine with the way everything is right now since I’ve stopped saying anything about it. How can I let him know I’m still “waiting” for this to happen SOON without bringing it up yet again?
Post # 3
Don’t. If you’re doing the challenge, I’m willing to bet he already is VERY aware of where you stand on the issue. If Spring comes and goes then you’re free to start bugging him again. Just my thoughts lol. good luck on the challenge!
Post # 4
@Summer82: I am in the same boat you are in, I did join the V day challenge a week ago and I have done very well, my boyfriend actually brought it up last night not me… I told him I wasnt the one who brought it up and he said he noticed that I hadnt brought it up at all in the last week. Your boyfriend will notice believe me, unless he is that consumed in himself and very dense. Guys dont want you to bring it up all the time since they want it off your mind ( which it wont be) but they dont know that , and then BAM!! they will pop the question. Maybe to let him know it is still on your mind without brining it up in a conversation you should do what I do, in everyday television watching or you are out with your SO you can always comment on how beautiful that wedding dress in the window looks or comment on a ring on a commercial … etc… but dont bring it up as a conversation, just in passing pretty much. I hope this helps because I am also trying to get through this myself.
Post # 5
@mg1363: I agree- I am sure he is wondering why you haven’t brought it up… Good job so far.