(Closed) Having dreams about sleeping with other men… WTF!??

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Sexy time dreams about someone other than FI/SO??
    Yes, unfortunately, somewhat frequently. : (14 votes)
    13 %
    Yes, sometimes. : (66 votes)
    62 %
    Only once or twice I've had them. : (20 votes)
    19 %
    Nope. Never. : (7 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
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    2091 posts
    Buzzing bee

    I have dreams like this pretty often actually! I always wake up feeling so guilty and upset, it’s so irrational. No idea on how to stop it 🙁

    Post # 4
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Frequently Embarassed But seriously, it’s just a dream and doesn’t represent what/how I’d react in real life.  Plus sometimes I’m like “ew, why them?!”

    Post # 6
    Member
    7408 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Sometimes, and always with people that i would not seriously consider in real life!

    Post # 7
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    1810 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    Last night I had two weird dreams. One of them was that I let this guy kiss me and I didn’t stop him and then people were telling me to tell my FH. I felt so guilty and luckily I woke up.

    Then I went back to sleep and had a dream that I slept with this other guy who I don’t know in real life (FH was not in the picture in this dream) and then he told me that he had HIV. I was freaking out and then luckily woke up! It was terrible.

    Post # 8
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    1641 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I have dreams like this quite often and frankly, I don’t care! It’s just a dream!

    Post # 9
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    2018 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    First of all it WOULD be dream if WB was back to normal. Lol Secondly, these dreams don’t mean anything. It could just be repressed sexual urges or it could be unrelated to sex, maybe a situation you shouldn’t be involved in. I once dreamed that a guy proposed to me and I was like, “wait a minute, it so happens that I already AM married.” Anyway, totally normal:)

    Post # 10
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    327 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Aw, man, so jealous! I would LOVE to be having vivid dreams about other people! In my dreams, I turn the other guy down because I don’t want to cheat on my partner. Then I wake up and I’m like, “That was just a dream? Oh no! That means I turned down hot sex for no good reason!”

    Monogamy doesn’t mean you don’t want to sleep with anyone else, it’s means you’re choosing not to. Having dreams about other people is totally normal, as is fantasizing about sex with people who aren’t your husband. Your erotic imagination doesn’t shut down just because you get married.

    Post # 12
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    1177 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    I have them all. the. time. I have no idea why!!!

    Post # 13
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    126 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Glad I’m not alone on this! I was starting to feel guilty even though they were just dreams. 

    Post # 14
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    382 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    I had a dream the other night where a friend wanted to have sex with me but I stopped her because I didn’t want to cause any problems with my Fiance. After I woke up and realized it was a dream I got pretty angry at myself.

    Post # 15
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    7403 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    When it happens, which is pretty regularly, I quite enjoy them. It’s natural.

    Post # 16
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    10714 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    @littlemissmango: I have them at least once a week… I find it kind of fun… lol I’d never cheat but the idea of being sneaky is just strangly fun. I’m a terrible person.

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