- 7 years ago
- Wedding: July 2012
I know this is unfair of me, but I find it so irksome when I hear that the man in a couple is the one who is pushing for children when the woman isn’t sure! Pretty easy to be the one who’s gung-ho when it’s not you who will undergo a massively uncomfortable – and months-long! – physiological change that will entail an even longer recovery time (and sometimes, more often than we hear about, permanent effects – like incontinence, for instance!). Not to mention that we live in a society that STILL pushes the bulk of parenting work onto women… I do get that many guys desperately want to be fathers, but it still rubs me the wrong way when I hear a guy trying to persuade a woman to change her mind.
So long as the couple is on the same page, of course, I’m down with it!
After seeing this, I can see some of your guys’ arguments… lol
27 reasons why kids are actually the worst!
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