Post # 1
Our wedding is five months away. My fiancé and I are super busy crossing the T’s and dotting the I’s in order for everything to run smoothly. We have seriously little to no help from oufor families in the planning process. Nor do I have a gaggle of bridesmaids to pump me up about the wedding. I am a naturally independent individual but lately I have been feeling a bit overwhelmed.
I have started to have nightmares about the wedding. For example, I dreamt my fiancé and I were both late for the ceremony and so everyone of our guests left. Our whole wedding was ruined. I am sure these dreams are just anxiety about things not going as smoothly as planned. They are disheartening. I don’t want anyone to think I am not excited about my wedding or not in love with my fiancé! But these dreams are scaring the pants off me!
Anyone else have nightmares or bad dreams before your big day? How did you cope with the stress of planning? Am I normal? Am I crazy? Thanks!
Post # 3
Totally normal! I had dreams that I forgot to get my hair and makeup done, but my whole bridal party still went to the salon without me. I also had a dream that I forgot to put my dress on, and everyone was rushing me down the aisle, saying I was late so I didn’t have time to put it on!
No worries, wedding dreams are totally normal!
Post # 4
my wedding nightmares all hinge on time. I’m always late or the ceremony starts 5 hours late or the DJ doesn’t start playing music until 11 pm. . . crazy stuff.
Post # 5
I’ve had several nightmares…almost from the beginning and I’m usually not a worry-wort. I dreamt that it was the wedding day and I had lost my dress so I was running from store to store trying to buy one and none were open. I’ve had a few others but that one had me triple checking to make sure my dress was in, it was safe and basically making me look like a crazy woman to the bridal salon employees, lol.
Whenever I have one, I talk to Fiance about it, he usually laughs at the absurdity of it and when I see that he is sincere about the absurdity of the dream and that everything is going great, I laugh with him and the dreams don’t bother me anymore.