- Spicy Tofu
- 6 years ago
- Wedding: May 2011
My RSVP deadline is coming up in the next couple weeks and we’ve had a lot of people decline. Even if all remaining people accepted we would still be at 227/249 invited. While we didn’t want to hit our max capacity, I am now thinking about all of the people I regretably had to invite solo. There are a handful of people I know now are in relationships that weren’t clear at the time the invitations went out. I am thinking of extending the plus one to them now that we’ve had some room open up (we told people we would consider additional guests when we knew more about our #’s).
However, now I’m feeling paranoid, do I have to go and ask all people who were invited single? I believe most of them are truly single and don’t want to encourage bringing someone if they aren’t dating anyone, but at the same time I don’t want to make them feel like the few who were left out? What are your thoughts? How should I approach the remainder of single guests? Or should I just leave it?