(Closed) Having Second Thoughts

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
8943 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Yes it’s completely normal!  Don’t worry, most people are not going to nit pick the details and will think your wedding looks great!  No one other than brides obsess over the wedding magazines and blogs with perfect looking weddings!

Post # 4
323 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I have had the same kind of thoughts at times. But just try to remember that it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. Let’s face it, other people will barely even remember the details of your wedding. If you like it, that’s all that matters. 


Post # 5
205 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

The good news is the guests will all adore your wedding, have a splendid time, and say its the best wedding they’ve ever been to! The bad news/honest truth is that most of them will not even notice your choices. I slaved over what I picked, colors, details, and I’ll bet if you asked my guests now ~8 months on, they would just remember how happy we looked and how much fun they had. So relax and be assured it will be *wonderful!”

Post # 6
9168 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I haven’t had that experience and my wedding is about a month before yours – the good news is, if you’re anything like me, in about 2 weeks, you’ll enter bridal burnout and not give a shit about anything wedding related! 😉  Relax, your wedding will be beautiful, stop stressing yourself out over details – many of which you cannot change at this point. 

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