Post # 1
my wedding is coming up and I’ve sent out a 3rd of my invitations already to all the A list.. I’m comtemplating weather I should send out an invite to this one person. She’s an aqaintance of mine and worked together a few times. Several months ago before planning my wedding, she begged me and asked me literally 5 times for me to invite her to my wedding. I just laughed it off and thought it was wierd because I would never dare to ask someone to invite me to their wedding or parties. I was thinking about sending her STD and wasnt going to til my fiance said just send it because she’s nice. I said well shes not my close friend and we talk in a blue moon or when ever she needs my help with something. For instance, she called me a few months ago out of the blue to ask me what color are my bridemaids wearing.. I told her its blush and she said “Oh ok because I want to make a dress for myself so it doesnt clash with your theme” I said oh ok.. (this was way before I even sent her an STD) She also said “omg I am so excited I’ve never been to a wedding before and I’m going to bring my sister too”
It was so awkward I didn’t know what to say to that because I didnt even send anything out to her yet…
What do you think? Should I send her a invitation?
Post # 3
if you sent her an STD, then you have to send her an invitation.
if you did not send an STD, then I would not invite her to the wedding.
Post # 4
@ajillity81: Thank you.
grrrr ok lol I shall do whats right. 🙂
Post # 5
- Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club
Make it clear that her sister is not invited.
Since you sent her a STD and pretty much told her she is invited, you’re obligated to invite her now.
Post # 6
Is your wedding really on July 7? If so, you’ve got to get those invitations out!
Post # 7
@cmbr: yes! LOL i did already execpt hers
Post # 8
@Anna10-05-2014: ok thank you, I will do the right thing then… even if i dont want to invite her.. sounds mean of me to say but can’t help how i feel. its just ever since that phone conversation i havent heard from her since.
Post # 9
yes, just throw the girl a bone..never been to a wedding before?? Where has she been?
Post # 10
I think she’s just excited.
Some people get excited in different ways – it throws me off, too.
You’ll send her the invite, she’ll come to your wedding and you’ll be too busy getting married to notice.
Assign someone to keep her under control (nicely, though) if you’re worried she’ll be too much up in your business on your big day.
Post # 11
@Lov3xbella: How funny! They say you always remember your first!
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Post # 13
Just remember she might think you guys are friends, even though you dont see her that way she might see you in the way. As long as you can afford adding her, and she’s nice i say why not!?
Besides (not that this is a reason) she might get you an awesome gift! lol 😉