(Closed) Having such an emotional day (vent)

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 3
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))) There’s a lot going on with/in your body. I’m not surprised you’re frustrated and having a bad day! I haven’t been pregnant myself, but I can totally understand why you’re feeling the way you are. Sending you lots of love sweetie and hoping you have a better day tomorrow!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I don’t really have much to say because I’ve never been pregnant.. but I just wanted to send you a big E-HUG! πŸ™‚

Just remind yourself that it’ll allll be worth it, once you hold your little angel for the first time!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Aww, I wish I would have seen this earlier. You have had a REALLY rough pregnancy, it’s completely understandable to be emotional right now. But you’re almost there!! I feel like rough pregnancies really make labor and the newborn phase seem like a breeze though. I’ve had days where I can’t stop crying because all I want to do is leave my house, with DS (who I have to lift up to get him in his carseat, shopping cart, stroller, etc) and do what I can normally do without having contractions or extreme pain everywhere. I’m sorry you’ve felt so down πŸ™ I keep telling myself that this is how I was made and this is what my body is meant to do and it get’s me out of feeling sorry for myself.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

 HUGS!  @mwitter80:  

You’re totally allowed to have down days and I am glad you’re “speaking” or writing about it and I hope even that just helps. Don’t ever feel like you are whining!

Hope you are doing better today and hope things go on a positive upswing for you. I hope the feelings you’re feeling now about sex and bendind down for things (lol silly to put in one sentence) you can look back on when not pregnant and that will bring you and Darling Husband even closer, and stronger.

I know things haven’t been easy for me so far, and if I have a day like this, you know I will be here writing (ranting?) and even through our scare and anything, your posts are always great to read and I am sorry you’re feeling down, but I hope things are better today πŸ™‚ Hugs again!

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mwitter80:  So sorry you had a poopy day!  I know exactly how you feel – some days just really suck more than others as the hormones are all wacky and we feel helpless.

It is definitely strange to not have control over your body and not be able to do stuff you could before.

if you’re anything like me – today you feel fine again and are slightly mad at yourself for feeling like such a mess the other day.

Don’t worry – it will get better!  Soon baby will be here and you won’t feel like there’s a little alien moving around in there (at least that’s what I think sometimes πŸ™‚ )

Hugs!!!

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

@mwitter80:  I’m sure that’s part of it, too.  On days when I’m working in the office alone and Darling Husband is working a 24 hour shift or something and I end up home in an empty house… I often will go the whole day without talking to someone else… so more time to live in my head with all the wacky πŸ˜‰

Glad you’re feeling better today!!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Sorry you’ve been having such a rough time.  I have to say that I don’t like being pregnant either and feel so guilty complaining, especially when I know there are so many that struggle.  I’m grateful, as I know you’re grateful but that doesn’t make it any easier.  I understand what you mean about hating not being able to do the things you normally do.  I have not felt good since almost literally day one (technically it was 3 days post ovulation) and this is a long time to go feeling like crapola.  It was comforting to me to hear from others that they disliked being pregnant too.  It helped me feel less guilty and bad about not enjoying this more.  I just keep reminding myself that the end reseult will SO be worth it.   We can do this!  πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I wish I would have seen this when you wrote it. You’re such a positive poster and always seem to be making the best out of such a rough pregnancy. I just wanted to chim in real quick and tell you that I understand and that you are not crazy for feeling this way some days. I look up to you and strive to take things in stride like you seem to do. We all have bad days – I’m glad you’re feeling better πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2004

Pregnancy can be tough.  I didn’t enjoy it either.  Just remember that you can do this and the payoff is huge.  How much longer do you have?

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t have any advice but wanted to send you a big HUG! I hope you have a better day tomorrow. xo

Post # 16
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

(hugs) It’ll be so worth it in the end.  I hope you’re feeling better.

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