(Closed) Having "The Talk"?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 16
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24 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: March 2013

ooh Honey i know exactly how you feel ,and i may not be the best person to give you an advice .  i have been “engaged” for 4 years. and 8 years total together.  

i know about “the talk” my boyfriend is just like yours, he dont like to talk about marriage,but he does like to talk about kids (!?) all the times i asked him about our wedding or he wont say nothing, or we were broke,or i want the big wedding and he dont, now when we both want to get married we cant we been having a very bad time ($$$$) the true is i cant wait to marry him!!! 

im 27 he’s 32 i feel like we are getting old! i want to be the wife! taking care of a house! go out with him as a wife! anyways…

i would say to talk to him, but dont push him someguys like mine dont like if i keep telling him when? do we have money to do something special? can we invite some friends? date? noo! step by step first talk to him ,see he reaction, listen what he have to say and then you can make plans. 

Post # 18
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857 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2016

Veleyna:  look into alternatives to diamonds like moissanite! you can get a moissy engagement ring for under 1k (still a lot, but attainable) some are even $500 on moissaniteco.com. I’m glad he is on the same page! Good luck saving

Post # 19
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3638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Veleyna:  That’s fantastic news! Good luck with his promotion, the certification (for you both) and finding so ways to cut corners. It sounds like all of this is just going to bring you closer together and help your relationship to grow even stronger. I’m so glad that it worked out so well.

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