(Closed) Hawaii Honeymoon—-Maui and Kauai or Maui and Oahu?

posted 8 years ago in Honeymoons
  • poll: Should we stay in Kauai or Oahu?
    Kauai : (21 votes)
    58 %
    Oahu : (13 votes)
    36 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    6 %
  • Post # 3
    1398 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    We are going to Oahu, but probably not for the reasons you want to. It’s where LOST was filmed! We’re going to take a couple walking tours to see all the key filming locations because we’re dorks like that 😛 I don’t know anything about Hawaii otherwise so I’m going to keep an eye on this thread!

    Post # 4
    281 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    We did Maui and Oahu, but in the opposite order.  We spent a day at Waikiki lounging on the beach, a day touring Pearl Harbour and the USS Missouri and then doing some shopping, and a day and a night exploring the North Shore (and some LOST filming sites – my husband is a HUGE fan too) before we headed to Maui where we stayed out or explored as the mood struck us.  We mainly went to Oahu because my husband wanted to see Waikiki and is obsessed with LOST.  Once we were there, he found he prefereed the quieter places for if we go back.  Honolulu was nice for a couple days to downshift from wedding craziness to relaxing vacation.

    Post # 5
    591 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Oahu and Kauai are completely different islands. If you want faster paced, hustle and bustle, and more city-like, choose Oahu. It is more commercialized and there is definitely plenty to do. However, if you want something way more SLOOOOW and quiet, then choose Kauai. Everything closes early on Kauai and it is just way more laid back, not that Hawaii isn’t already. I think it depends on what you and your soon to be hubby prefer! Hope this helps!

    Post # 6
    102 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    I was going to say Maui! But since you are already set on Maui its perfect.My fince and i just went last May and its an incredible island if your visitng as a couple. I would say make sure u have plenty of time/ days to enjoy what the island has to offer. We were in the island of Kihei were were snorkled ( best experience ever) ilf you plan to snorkle try the Sea Fire adventure! Lihaina was super fun! we only went for 5 days .. so we didnt get to do  the Road to Hana. We have friends that live in Maui. The told us that Oahu is not the place to go if your going as a couple. HE described it as the Vegas of Hawaii.. but if thats what your looking for. ( also warned us that the locals are not very nice  in Oahu)

    Post # 7
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    We did maui and Kauai and LOVED both..here is my review of both islands and what we did!  We just wanted to relax in Kauai..there was more we could have done…the Canyon..see the waterfalls..

    For anyone going to Maui and/or Kauai, I did my best to summarize what we did saw and ate – It was an amazing trip so hopefully some of this info is helpful!!

    Monday: Arrived at Airport – If there is anything you forget, there is a Kmart very close to the airport – We actually had to stop there for a few things.  We got our rental car (Hertz) and drove to The Westin where we checked in!  Had a great room with views of pool and ocean – Bathrooms in the room are ehh.  Pool and grounds are amazing though!  We were exhausted so we just ate at the outside restaurant (forget name).  The tuna tar tar, 4 cheese sandwich, wings and rock shrimp tempura were all delicious!!

    Tuesday  – Woke up super early because of the time change – went for a run on the beach – there is actually a little path that goes by all the hotels (Hyatt, Marriott, etc.). Then we set up our activities for the week in the hotel.  Tuesday for breakfast we went to Kano and Taro, which is right next to our hotel in Whaler’s Village – Whaler’s Village has all these cool shops for shopping!  Then straight to the pool..The Westin has about 5 pools to choose from including an adults only pool which was nice!! Only annoying thing was that people wake up at like 7am to “claim” chairs. Lunch on Tuesday was at Hula Grill – also right near Whalers Village – views of the ocean and live music playing – awesome!  We weren’t that hungry so we split the Hawaiian Ceviche (AMAZING!!) and a burger..also yummy!   Tuesday for dinner we went into the nearby town of Lahaina – we took a free shuttle right from the Westin – Had a drink at Cheeseburger in Paradise first before heading over to Kemo’s for dinner – We had a 6:30p reservation – PERFECT time to see the sunset right into the ocean!  We ordered the lobster stuff mahi mahi and it was one of the best things I have ever tasted in my life!!!!  You must get this!!!  We also ordered the parmesan crusted Opa – also great!

    Wednesday was up early for snorkeling – We did one of those 4 hour excursions at Molokini – I think the boat we went on was called Tradewinds. –You get there early in the morning like 7:30 – You check in and they have breakfast on the boat.  It then takes an hour to get to Molokini – once there we went right in the water – the snorkeling on the reef was great – we saw a lot of cool things – For $40 we also rented one of their underwater cameras where you could take up to 400 pictures and they give you a CD on the end with everything you shot.  We took a break at one point – there was lunch and unlimited beer/wine on the boat as well.  After a few hours we started heading back and the boat stopped at what I think was called Turtle Universe – We could see the turtles coming up for air – then It was back to land. Wednesday night we did the Feast at Lele in the town of Lahaina – There were a bunch of different luai’s to choose from – This was a little different for a few reasons – for starters we had our own private table, and didn’t have to sit with any other couples, It was also full service (no buffet) and unlimited drinks.  They served 5 (yes 5!) courses – it was a lot but it was all so good.  I think my favorite thing was part of course 1 – the pulled pork.  The show was great too!

    Thursday – So today was the big day – The Road to Hana, We stopped off in the morning at the grocery store to get breakfast, lunch sandwiches and snakes for the day – We bought a cooler and ice and we were off!  We mad a variety of different stops…Waikami Ridge Trail (good hiking trails), Garden of Eden (Beautiful!), we saw the Puohokamoa Falls from the Garden of Eden, Various lookouts over the Ke-anae Peninsula..the highlight was at mile marker 10, there was the Upper Waikani Falls (three bear falls)..we found this waterfall manageable to get down – it was beautiful – about the half way point we stopped at one of the stands for banana bread – so good!  We only went about half way (mile marker 25 and turned around). We stopped for lunch in a park at one point.  We got back to the hotel about 3 I think and we were spent  – Many people do the entire road to Hana but we had seen enough (we aren’t that into nature..ha). We were supposed to go t Sensei for dinner (heard their sushi is great), but we were just tired from the day so we walked over to the Hyatt and had dinner there.  They have some sushi so we were able to get some rolls there.

    Friday – Did the pool and then went into Lahaina for lunch – we went to Cool Cat Café for burgers – very casual place but good burgers!!  At 4:30p, we had to be ready for the Westin Cruise we were taking from the hotel – It was a 2 hour sunset cruise which was casual – for like $60 a person it was appetizers and unlimited drinks!.  This is the night we went the craziest – we were drinking John Daly’s which are basically vodka with ice tea and lemonade – We met a fun couple on the cruise and hung out with them – After the cruise, we went to Longboards (in the Marriot I think) for a drink and then went to the Hyatt Bar for a bunch more drinks – all walking distance so we didn’t have to drive.

    Saturday – Last full day in Maui before leaving for Kauai – We were slightly hungover from our boat cruise the night before so we did nothing most of the day – room service slept – We did get up early thought because my husband had a surf lesson in the morning which he loved!  We did make it out for dinner though – We went to Pacifio in the town of Lahaina (right next door to where the Feast at Lele was) – Another great sunset, but I’m not sure I would go back here – the Lobster with coconut sause was good, but the Mahi Mahi was just okay – I think because the food at Kemo’s was so good we were comparing everything to that!

    Sunday – It was off to the airport – Flew Island Air from Maui to Kauia – only an hour flight – got our rental car and were off to our first of 2 hotels in Kauai – When I booked the honeymoon I couldn’t decide on staying on the northern or southern part of the island so we did 3 nights in each.  About an hour from the hour from the airport we arrived at the St. Regis in Princeville – what a beautiful hotel – rooms definitely better than the Westin and it definitely was more laid back (which is what we were looking for at this point of the trip).  Nice hotel but definitely the priciest of the places we stayed.  After we checked in we got some lunch at the poolside restaurant Nalu Kai Grill & Bar – Cobb salad’s both good, but for $22 each I expected more.  My husband also tried and Aloha Mary – its their version of the Bloody Mary and it was great!!!  We got some more pool time in.  Then went to the cocktail lounge to watch the sunset, have some drinks and listen to the live music.   We wanted to try out Kauai Grill the Jean-George restaurant but it is closed on Sunday and Monday (so we are doing it Tuesday night).  Instead we ate at the other hotel restaurant Makana Terrace – our expectations weren’t that high, so we were pleasantly surprised with some of the dishes –They have something called a Market table special that changes every night.  The night were were there it was $60 per person and included an appetizer (Lobster over Macroni and cheese), dinner (Seabass) and a dessert .  We got one of those  – the lobster over mac and cheese was one of the top 5 things I tasted on the trip.  My husband got the Rack of Lamb – another winner!!

    Monday – Pool time at the St. Regis for some relaxation! Around lunchtime we drove the coast (very beautiful) and stopped in the small town of Hanalei to go in some shops and for lunch.  We ate at Bouchon.  The Lava Flow drinks weren’t as good as the ones we ordered when on Maui so skip that.  However the Tropical Thunder drink was very good.  Also, skip the ribs – not great.  What was good was the turkey and bacon Panini – yum!.  After lunch back to the pool.   We hit up the cocktail lounge again for the amazing sunset, and then got back in our car for dinner – We drove 10 minutes to The Dolphin Restaurant Sushi Bar and Fish Market – We got there at 7:30 and there was an hour wait on a Monday night!  They don’t take reservations though.  Luckily a couple got up from the bar and we were able to sit there for dinner so we didn’t have to wait.  The food was great.  For appetizer we got the parmesan crusted stuffed mushrooms – try these!!!  And some ceviche.  Then we got a California roll, spicy tuna roll and the Hanalei Roll – the Hialeah Roll was great too!!  We rented a movie that night and stayed low key!

    Tuesday – On Tuesday we relaxed around the hotel.  We went to the gym and then rented snorkeling equipment – the St. Regis rents it for $5 a person and then you can go in the ocean around the reef right in front of the hotel 0 – we weren’t up for another big snorkeling excursion, so this worked out perfectly.  Saw another great sunset at the St. Regis Bar and then went to Kauai Grill in the St. Regis for dinner – it is on of Jean Georges restaurants and living in NYC it didn’t disappoint.  The tuna tar tar, filet mignon, mushrooms and potatoes were all amazing – best meal we had on the honeymoon..the food, 2 cocktails and then 2 glasses of wine came to $275 with tip but it was well worth it!


    Wednesday – Woke up, packed and it was off from the St. Regis to the Hyatt on Poipu Beach (the Southern part of Kauai).   When we got to the Hyatt, they let us check in early – We were AMAZED by the grounds – its on the ocean on a total of I think 52 acres!   Another free bottle of champagne and the Hyatt offered some other things for honeymooners too (free dessert at a restaurant, discount at the spat).  The grounds were sprawling and beautiful  We immediately went to the pool, which was bar far the best pool of the trip – There were a bunch of different sections and a slide (which was fun!).  We went to the adult pool section and ordered lunch and drinks (Wednesday’s is .50 cent wing day so it worked out perfectly).  One of the first thing we noticed is that the pool was pretty empty – There were people there but nothing like how crowded the Westin and St. Regis were – of course the Hyatt’s pool was much bigger, but we did find out that the hotel was under renovation and 2/3rds of the rooms weren’t being utilized – Fine by us – we like the peacefulness of it.  For dinner that night we decided to eat at Tidepools – the restaurant in the Hyatt (its build right over a little pond which is nice) – Food was great here as well – Tuna Tar Tar and Mini Crab cakes for appetizers and then for dinner    I got the seabass and Jeff got the Opa – both great! They make a good vodka dirty martini too!

    Thursday – Woke up super early this day (6:30am) to go ziplining.  We signed up for one of the 6 hour ziplining tours through Outfitters – and I think it was actually one of the best ones.  There was a total of 5 ziplines – some of them we did twice and one of them was the highest and longest in Hawaii.  It was awesome – ran $150 per person.  We also were able to swim in a watering hole which was amazing!  The land that we ziplined on is actually private land that the general public has no access too, so it was cool to see – Movies like Jurassic Park, Pirates of the Caribbean and a bunch of others were filmed there.  After ziplining we headed to Puka Dog – a recommendation by our zipline guides, it’s the best place to get a hotdog – it actually was on one of the Travel Channel specials about best hot dogs – different from a regular hotdog but pretty good! – We also drove into Old Koloa town to see what it was – not a lot going on there and the stores were just okay.  After that we went back to the hotel and had some drinks at the pool bar – ended up getting a little tipsy so we took a cab to dinner – We were supposed to do Donderos the Italian place in the Hyatt, but felt like going more casual, so we took a cab to Keoki’s Paradise – cool laid back outside bar/restaurant.

    Friday – Slept in – breakfast for room service! We didn’t do much of anything today.  For dinner we went to the Beach House which has been ranked one of Hawaii’s best restaurants for the past 10 years.  For appetizers we got the ceviche and seafood corn chowder – both good.  Our main meals were just okay – truffle crusted ono – We were so sick of eating and drinking by this time, that it could just been us being sick of food.  The best thing about going to the Beach House is its write on the water and the sunsets are amazing.  We made a 6:30pm reservation (at the beginning of September) and it was the perfect time to see the sunset.

    Saturday – Last day in Hawaii!  Jeff wanted to watch a  FSU football game so we found a place right near the Hyatt – Kalapaki Joe’s that opened at 7am (6am starting the weekend after Labor Day).  It’s a sports bar with good drink and food specials.  After that we packed – We had to check out of the hotel at noon, but  they Hyatt held our bags.  We were also allowed to use the pool facilities for the remainder of the day and the spa to shower at no charge.  Jeff took one more surfing lesson.  Later that day it was off to the Lihue Airport.  One thing to mention is that if you are renting a car and use National or Enterprise, their offices aren’t in the airport but a little ways down the road – We didn’t realize this but luckily were able to find it quickly – Dropped off the car and were shuttled to the airport  and we were off!

    All in all it was an amazing trip.  My husband Jeff and I couldn’t have asked for a better honeymoon!!





    Post # 9
    514 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2011

    You fly into Oahu and transfer to Kauai or Maui. That’s one of the reasons, we are actually staying in Oahu for just Pearl Harbor and the Polynesian Cultural Center and before flying to Maui for the bulk of the trip and finishing off in Kauai. Oahu is like party city and Kauai is QUIET so I’d say spend most of the time on Maui.

    Post # 10
    922 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I flew from NY – layover the way there was in Dallas, way back was LA – flew into Maui and out of Kauai – didn’t have to go to Oahu at all…

    Post # 11
    1729 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    “Nothing to do in Oahu other than Pearl Harbor” — LOL!!

    I’ve lived here for a couple years and have never even BEEN to Pearl Harbor. Haha! If that tells you anything about how appealing it is compared to everything else… 😉

    Many, many people make the mistake of associating the entire island of Oahu with our metropolitan city of Honolulu. Yes, Honolulu is very busy and is a big city. There is tons to do there (nightlife, shopping, restaurants, etc.), but it in no way encompasses everything about the rest of island. Drive a mere 20 minutes or so outside of town and you can discover quiet, low-key beach towns with plenty of fun and/or relaxing outdoor activies you would expect to enjoy in Hawaii, like kayaking, hiking, snorkeling, etc. There’s also the very rural area of the entire north shore which is both a polar opposite experience from the city. North shore is home to some of the top surf breaks in the entire world, if you’re into that, or even if you want to just watch (depending on the time of year, of course). This is just the tip of the iceberg — I could go on all day talking about everything there is to experience here.

    Basically, I feel like Oahu offers the best of both worlds, and is by far the most diverse island to visit. You can see and do everything you can on the other “quiet” islands, plus more. Hope you enjoy your trip!

    Post # 12
    353 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    We also did Kauai and Maui in that order.  We flew thru LA each way and it was a long day of travel both times so make sure to stay for at least 10 days.  In Kauai we stayed at the St. Regis and really enjoyed the laid back vibe.  We ziplined with Princeville Adventures (very fun), and one day drove to Waimea Canyon, though the weather wasn’t cooperating for great views. We also took a stand up paddle boarding lesson but was underwhelmed.  Other then that we mostly laid by the pool or ocean and snorkeled a couple of times.  We also ate at The Dolphin and still rave about it, some of the best sushi I have ever had.  We even left another restaurant Bar acuda, to go back!  There is only one road around Kauai and it can take a lot of time to get around, one night we drove to Poipu Beach for dinner at the Beach House, over an hour each way.  The food was good and the sunset was nice but not really worth it in our opinion.  They recommend you stay close to your resort and I would agree, it’s just takes too much time to drive around.  Overall, it was just a wonderful place to chill.  

    Post # 13
    409 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Kauai is definitely prettier (I’ve never been there) but whoever told you the only thing to do on Oahu is see pearl harbor is dead wrong.  I have been to just Oahu twice, each time for a full week, and had a week packed of things to do, and I never went to pearl harbor!

    I agree with littlemissmango, oahu definitely offers the best of both worlds.  It was nice to do the more rural, senic things, but also have a wide choice of things to do at night.

    Post # 14
    987 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    @lauren810c: Do you really think people want to read about your entire holiday?!

    @JerzyLady:  I’d take Oahu over Kauai as you will have already experienced the slow, relaxed Hawaiian pace on Maui.  In Oahu it is worth visiting Pearl Harbour, some shopping. Waikiki beach, etc. 

    Post # 15
    5153 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I know this isn’t helpful but either of those sound pretty fabulous right about now (Michigan winters…need I say more?!) 🙂 Enjoy picking…and I don’t think either is a “wrong” choice!!

    Post # 16
    699 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    While Maui and Kauai are very different places, I think you’ll end up doing similar things on both islands–hang out at the resort, maybe go on a snorkeling or hiking trip, etc. Personally I prefer Kauai to Maui so I’d go for Oahu and Kauai if that were an option, but you seem set on Maui. As littlemissmango and others have noted, there’s so much to do on Oahu, with the full range of daytime and nighttime activities. The North Shore is absolutely gorgeous and it’s definitely worth doing the drive around Oahu. Waikiki is worth a visit (mai tais at sunset at the House without a Key at the Halekulani) but it’s not the only place on the island!

    There are unfriendly locals (and friendly locals) on all the islands, so I’m not sure why  kventures ‘s friend feels Oahu locals are particularly unfriendly–but then again FH and his family are local, so I might be biased.

    And littlemissmango , now you’ve got me thinking about our last trip, which coincided with the Eddie last year.  Watching that was such an awesome experience, even if we had to hang out on the cliff up by the heiau (we couldn’t park anywhere remotely near the beach!).

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