(Closed) He asked me to email him pics of rings I like…but has not said a thing since..

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2893 posts
Sugar bee

Heh. It gets the to the best of us. ๐Ÿ™‚ The 1st time I sent my guy a ring email I was anxious for like 3 weeks afterwards. For whatever reason I wanted acknowledgement that he had got it, input perhaps, you know, his thoughts on the ring, anything. Then one day I woke up and I wasn’t thinking about it anymore. I think it’s just a natural response to something exciting. Kinda like waiting for a Christmas present. Someone asks you what you want, you tell them, then get excited about receiving it for the next couple weeks even though Christmas won’t come for a few more months. ๐Ÿ™‚

By The Way, Gorgeous ring! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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851 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My finace did this but it was in prep for our overseas trip, 6 months away. I spent 6 months wondering had he, hadnt he?

It IS to maintain the element of surprise so I wouldnt push the issue ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

The ball is in his court now – you’ve done all you can and now it is up to him to research. Might be a reason why he hasn’t brought it up again, might be devising a plan to get you one of the rings you suggested!

Too much information overload will only confuse his decision making so let him use what youve sent him, and mention it again to him in a few more weeks when he should have come up with his thoughts.

Post # 6
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3303 posts
Sugar bee

Definitely in his court- sending you easy waiting vibes!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Size 7 was too much, yeah.

 

Othwerwise nevermind! He clearly said surprise, so keep wondering, just don’t ask, talk, mention it again.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I dn’t think Size 7 was necessarily too much. That’s really useful information!

But saying anything else before a few months has passed would be.

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

@misskittykakes: oh lord lol. too funny! although you realize you’re now “the friend” right? As in… every waiting girl who gives her bf a hint that she’s not sure he received and wants to push it just a bit farther will now remember “that friend who sent the ring pics and he didn’t get them because he’d changed his email! so i should probably just check to be sure….” haha.

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