(Closed) He broke off the marriage… I am miserable :(

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 76
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1330 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2016 - Painswick Church and the Falcon Hotel

No way would I get back with him after the embarrassment of having to cancel my wedding! He messed up big time 

Post # 77
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1271 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

lovemermaid10 :  Nothing has changed, so what kind of advice were you expecting this time around? You’re just looking for an excuse to get back with him. How are you the bad guy when he was the one that ruined everything?

If you had a friend who was experiencing something similar, would you tell her to go back to a man who wants to keep her around until someone better comes along?

Post # 78
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Advice: Block his number from your phone. Block him from Facebook. Tell your family and anyone he might contact go get to you to block him as well. 

 

Hes is calling you heartless to manipulate you. It’s a defense mechanism. It basically seems like he’s willing to SAY whatever go try to manipulate your emotions. 

 

He he sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. Like years worth. If you take him back now I gauruntee you within ten years from now he pulls the same crap. Someone who is willing to cut and run when things aren’t “fun” anymore or because they feel like “there’s no passion” is not who you want for your life partner. 

 

Passion on all of the time is not sustainable. It ebbs and flows throughout the life of a relationship. 

 

You’re young. You will meet someone who will make a better partner. 

 

Break off contact.

 

 

 

Post # 80
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263 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

My friend’s parent went through the exact same thing. They have now been happily married for over 40 years. Now if I was you I’d wait a little longer to see if he really believes he messed up and truly wants you back because he may just be missing being in a relationship. Not necessarily being in a relationship with you. I’m my friend’s parent’s case the dad left saying there was no passion but in reality he was scared of such a HUGE milestone in their relationship and panicked. Then he came to his senses and realized he messed up. The mom waited a couple months just to be sure and then gave him another chance.

If it was me I honestly don’t know what I would do. I’m just giving you one example where things actually worked out. But only you know him. I wish you the best of luck. 

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