Post # 47
I think you deserve so much better. Even if it isn’t the guy that you are dating now, you will find someone that will not run away just because he thinks he might hurt you….all of that sound like a bunch of BS….he hurt you just by leaving you the way he did, so that tells me he didn’t even consider you.
Stay srong and move on with your life.
Post # 48
The emails kept pouring in over the weekend. I replied and explained the same things I already have. That while the situation is sad and shouldn’t have ended up like this, there isn’t a way for me to go back now. The trust is broken and there are obviously major communication issues between us. I explained that I don’t want to keep reliving this, and that I don’t think communicating between us is a good idea. Aaaand then I got flowers at work yesterday. A huge arrangement – literally the prettiest I’ve ever seen. Blah. I sent him a thank you text, and he replied saying that he just wanted me to have a good day. That’s the last I’ve heard from him.
It’s all so confusing and exhausting, but I think the SMART thing for me to do is just not respond to his messages anymore. I’ve said all I need to say, and eventually he will stop. It’s really sad because my heart and my head are telling me different things, but for once I think I need to go with my head. And thanks to all you great gals for reminding me of that! Sometimes things are just so cloudy until you get outside perspectives. And the stories about things working out in the end for some of you in similar situations are really great, they are just so few and far between…