He called the wedding off through FB

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 62
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1643 posts
Bumble bee

WOW. He still should’ve had the decency to tell her in person, and his family enabling him like that was wrong on their part. But thank god she found out now. I know someone who married a (very sweet) boy, only to, after a year and a half of marriage, have him disappear for several days then come home and come out to her. Heartbreaking. They were very good friends in high school before he decided to make her his beard. If he’d been honest with her and himself they would probably still be very good friends. Instead–I’m pretty sure she hates him. :/

Post # 63
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1643 posts
Bumble bee

@Wonderstruck: Did you read the part where OP states that she has a widely read wedding blog, and that her clients sign a contract that has a clause that states she can blog about their wedding? She’s done nothing wrong. Also, you know who made it public? Her FI–when he broadcast it on facebook.

Post # 65
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3135 posts
Sugar bee

I hope her health is okay, if he was cheating on her with boys/men at the same time.

And her mental health.

Thank god she dodge that bullet.

Post # 66
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671 posts
Busy bee

im glad she didnt end up with that ass

Post # 67
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@mwitter80: Glad the bride is okay with it. I did miss the part about the blog and how they know and everything like that. I just know that for me personally the whole thing would be heart-wrenching enough without a bunch of strangers reading about it on the internet! But I realize that’s just my personal feeling.

Post # 68
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4769 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

at least he sent a message and didn’t just change his status.  When I broke up with my now ex-FI I made sure to do it in person and he said it would have been better if I’d just called or wrote an email.  I wish I had known, I would have liked that better too!

Post # 69
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26 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2011

wow….DOUCHE! I’m not even sure what an appropriate response would be? it would be funny if she started a facebook campaign to hunt him down (“looking for my missing ex-fiance who hasn’t informed me that the wedding is off!”)

but gosh better now than later on, if he were to call off their marriage on facebook!

Post # 70
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5110 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

This is awful.. My heart hurts for this woman!! Send our love and thoughts to her… I cant even imagine.. omg.

Post # 71
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

Well, at least she knows now it wasn’t anything she did wrong, or anything to do with her. Situation still sucks…but not as much as being a woman married to a gay man would suck.

Post # 72
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1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

that is horrendous! hate to say it but karma comes back to get cha

 

it only means the next guy will be that much more wonderful

Post # 73
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197 posts
Blushing bee

I feel for her. That’s awful! At least she found out now before she tied the knot to that coward!

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