- 8 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
My Boyfriend or Best Friend and I have had a rough month with him working alot… So I decided to stay up and visit with him last night after his bowling league at his bar, well I was mostly just sitting around listening to him talk business and he did our usual signs for “I love you” and kind of a “sorry I’m not paying alot of attention to you”. Well he asked the dj to play what has unofficially been our song so we could dance, as we’re dancing he whispers in my ear thanking me for being so supportive. And telling me how much he loves me and appreciates me being in his life ! Now, mind you, my Boyfriend or Best Friend is NOT a romantic person… at all, so when things like this come out of his mouth (especially when we’re dancing! which we hardly do) I really cherish them and can take them to heart.
Well, I tell him this later about how I know he’s not a romantic personbut I really appreciate and love how honest those moments are, and he looks at me and just says “I’m just being honest, I have always been honest and I’ll always be me… I’m just glad that you accept me the way I am”. ::melt!::
I also decided yesterday that I wasn’t going to mention weddings or getting married anymore so he can surprise me etc. So I apologized for bringing it up so much lately and he said that he didn’t mind at all, he loved talking about it and he can’t wait for it to happen! We then proceeded to talk again for at least an hour about our Church vs Outside ceremony and in the end I decided to at least visit the church in person and see how I feel, and he told me that he wouldn’t be dissapointed if we got married outside because he just wants to marry me and he loves me and he will never be dissapointed about marrying me, and that this will be my first wedding (and last wedding, his words) and he wants me to be happy.
::swoon!:: I love this man. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with him. 🙂 thanks for letting me vent ladies, at least it’s a super happy vent this time! 🙂
What has your SO said lately that has really surprised you?? 🙂