(Closed) He Cheated and it's OVER!! 26 Days before the wedding (LONG)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
7311 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast


Nothing that anyone says can possibly make this time any easier for you. Just keep reminding yourself that it is better to learn what kind of man he really is before you get married. You may be low now, but you will build yourself back up and be stronger and wiser than you ever were before. You will survive and you will thrive. Believe in yourself, invest in yourself, and watch him weep from afar. He lost a good thing, and it’s all his fault. What an *sshat.

Post # 4
1736 posts
Bumble bee

Oh my gosh…I’m so sorry. I know that there is nothing to be said in this situation…nothing that could possibly make you feel any better. I’m glad that you have the strength to walk away and you realize that you deserve honesty, respect and true love. All my best to you and lots of cyber-hugs to help you get through.

Post # 5
6 posts
  • Wedding: July 2012

It won’t help you feel better now, but one day you’ll be happy you found out before the wedding. It sucks you have to go through this 🙁 They both showed their true colours. 

Post # 6
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I am SO sorry this happened to you! There’s not much anyone can say that will make this better.  The only good thing that happened here is that you found this out now instead of a year, two years, or ten years from now.

Break-ups can truly feel like the end of the world, but it’s not! You’ll be ok. As hard as it will be, things will get better. You get a chance to start over while you’re still young enough to enjoy it!

Post # 7
23602 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

🙁 BIG HUGS to you! That is just terrible.  Thinking of you as you begin to pick all the pieces of your life back up!  We all  love you and hope things get better!

Post # 8
75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

My heart goes out to you. I know it hurts, but it is better to find out now as opposed to after the wedding. Think of it this way…..there must be bigger and better things in store for you.

Post # 9
604 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I want to go find this guy and punch him in the face. With a chair. Good for you for leaving him though. He is the biggest piece of sh*t ever for doing this to you.

Post # 10
5977 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m so sorry that two of the people you’re supposed to trust most in this world betrayed you like this. I agree with PPs in that it’s better that it happened now and not when you’re married with a baby on the way or if you had kids already. What in the world does this “friend” have to say for herself? Does she not know the meaning of friendship…ugh…disgusting.

I know that it seems daunting at 30 that you are starting over, but this is absolutely for the better. Focus on you and getting back on your feet and things will get better a day at a time. Don’t let him contact you in any way, and heal on your own time. 

Post # 11
745 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

You name is on the house and truck? Legally, they’re half yours. You should also look into recouping half (or all) of what you put into the wedding. It’s not your fault it’s off, it’s his. Legally, you may be entitled to compensation from him.

Post # 12
27 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

I am so sorry to hear this!  ****BIG HUG**** 

Post # 13
3583 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

EWWWWW.  Why are people so shitty??  OP, I am so happy you were able to find this out before the wedding.  Man, it’s true what they say – you do actually find out who your friends are during the wedding process. 

And you know what I am so happy about?  That the woman didn’t mind her own business like most folks would have.  That’s so awesome.  Who was she?  How did she know and get your email address?


Post # 14
1089 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Holy crap! I am so very sorry! Sending a big hug your way! I pray that things get better for you which I know they will, thank God you found this out before you married him!

Post # 15
1013 posts
Bumble bee

So sorry this happened! Be thankful you found out BEFORE the wedding.  You will be ok eventually. Stay stong!

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