- 6 years ago
- Wedding: March 2017
I just wanted to let you all know that I am no longer getting married! I am selling my dress in the classifieds, it’s beautiful, so please take a look if you’re interested.
Here’s what happened…
Monday morning (June 18th), I got an email from some girl I don’t know saying that when I was out of town a few weeks back, one of my best friends slept with my fiance. Of course I stopped breathing, but though, well who the heck is this chick and there’s no way that could have happened. I have been with my fiance for 5 years and known that “friend” for 10.
So, of course I did my research, what girl about to walk down the isle wouldn’t? No proof and my Fiance and “friend” both denied it. Well, I asked the girl that emailed me if she had any proof and she was working hard to find some for me and provided me more details then I ever asked for or wanted…
So, the story was that when I was away (May 12, 2012) for my very best friends 30th Birthday party (girls night). He texted this “friend” and asked her to come over. He had a few drinks so he was unable to pick her up and she’s useless trailer trash so has no means of transportation, so she called a cab and he paid. She went over, had sex with him and left.
He denied, denied, denied… So I said to him, “What if I have proof?”. He said, I don’t think you’ll have any. Nice, eh? The email girl was researching taxi companies log books to get me the proof, so I told him I was contacting cab companies and if it happened I will find proof. So, after saying that he admitted it!!!!
He cheated on me with one of my BEST friends two months before I was to walk down the isle to him. I found out less then a month before our wedding date and my heart stopped and my life ended!!!
I started packing, we had a house together for 3 years. He has money, but I wanted none of it. The only thing that was in my name aswell was the house, but he paid for it all, so I didn’t want a dime!! The truck was in his name too.
So, I called for my mom and she came over and helped me pack and brought me back home. We’ve continued to move things over the passed few days.
I have no home, no vehicle and no savings as all of that went towards the wedding. I am 30 years old and I have to start my life over from scratch! I hurt so much I can barely breath at times. My life, my plans, my everything are all gone!!