(Closed) He Cheated…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
42 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@00Elise00:  HUGS!!!! So sorry for what happened. FWIW if you felt relief when you were away from him thats a good sign you werent meant to be with him. I would send him an email telling him you need to talk with him about something important and ask him to call you.

Explain your feelings, let him know that you dont feel he has made any progress in regaining your trust and that you dont feel appreciated.  Just because someone proposes doesnt mean they or you should marry them.

Good luck to you…

Post # 5
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8042 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@00Elise00:  I’m sooo tempted to suggest you text him to dump him since his texting got you into this situation in the first place.

Post # 6
Member
6359 posts
Bee Keeper

Thank goodness you didn’t marry him!

Wishing you the best, breakups are never fun. At least you know he does deserve it.

Post # 7
Member
19 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wow. I dont even know where to begin besides saying you did the right thing by moving home. I dont think I could personally ever enter into marriage feeling the way you do right now. Being home right now is going to be the best thing for you bc you will be with people who you know love you and respect you. Who will always be there for you. Your going to need a lot of support right now, becuase you may be angry but you will be sad at some point. I cant tell you what to do, but if it were me Id count my blessings you found out now, rather than after your married to him. Before my Fiance I thought Id be with an ex of mine for a “long time”, wishful thinking at  the time. I didnt realize how bad our relationship actually was until I was out of it. In the end breaking up was the best thing because it made me a stronger, smarter, and thankful. I went out and did my own thing, found my own way and now I am a woman who knows what I like, what I dont and what I will not settle for.  Best wishes to you girly. I’ll be sayin some prayers for ya. 🙂

Post # 8
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

You need to tell him you want out. There’s no easy way to go about it, but you will both be better off in the long run. Best of luck! 

Post # 9
Member
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Tell him how you feel and move on..Doesn’t sound like you are happy with him

Post # 13
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3248 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@00Elise00:  Yes, that sounds like a good idea. Just make sure that you leave absolutely no doubt that you are breaking up with him for good.

Post # 15
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I feel like this is one of those situations where you can’t act around other peoples emotions and do right by you. I would mail him back the ring and call him if your long distance.    I told my ex that ” look we’ve had some good times, However I’ve been unhappy for a long time and it’s not fair to you or me to continue this relationship. I’m sorry but my mind is made up and this is goodbye”. 

If I had waited untill ” a good time” to do it it never would have happened because he always had some crisis or another. 

Good luck!

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