(Closed) He didn’t get the job :(

posted 7 years ago in Career
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I’m so sorry he didn’t get the job.  I don’t know how much help I’ll be because we’re also waiting for my husband to get calls about jobs but I’m sending hugs your way as well as hopes and prayers that he’ll get a job offer soon for somewhere that he loves just as much or more!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

I’m sorry he didn’t get it. ๐Ÿ™  You and your husband are not alone.  It is terrible that the job market is so bad that many, many people are putting their lives on hold…

Post # 5
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7770 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Crappy.  I am sorry to hear that.  Double damn.  :/  I have almost gotten used to this happening with DH’s career hopes- he is in a very popular competetive field.  Thing will work out somehow for you two!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m so sorry that he didn’t get the job.  My Fiance was without a job for 3 months, and I struggled to make ends meet.  But he eventually found something.  I’m sure your Darling Husband will find a job soon, even if it’s just a temporary one as a filler for a little while until he finds one he loves.

(((Hugs))) to you.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

Oh gosh I know exactly what you’re going through.  We just got bad news about my SO’s new job so now he’s unemployed because he had quit his old one.  I totally understand the not posting because it makes it real.  I actually took a break from WB because it was such a slap in the face since it may have pushed back our engagement and it was so difficult to see posts from everyone who’s on track and happy with their lives.

All I can say is I’m sooo sorry and you will both be the stronger from this one day.  It always helps me to think that maybe this is how it is meant to be and maybe there was something awful about the job that your Darling Husband wouldn’t have found out until working there.  Or maybe it happened because something even better is up.  I know it all sounds so empty and not true but in times like this it’s helpful to just believe and not dissect.

Hugs!!

Post # 10
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9824 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m so sorry. My husband was recently turned down for a promotion and it was devestating. We would have basically been in our dream situation (enough to buy a house, able to afford a new car) and now we’re back to square one.

It absolutely sucks out there.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

@canthugallcats:  It’s just a filler for now.  He’ll have his degree next year (he decided to go back to school to get his bachelors in business when he lost his last job), so he’s hoping it’ll help him land a better job.  He does enjoy the job he just got though, selling cell phones.  He’s a people person so he loves it.

Would he be willing to work a dead end job, even if it means while he’s working he’ll have to keep applying for jobs?

Post # 12
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2011

Im so sorry that you guys are going through this!! I know jobs are hard to come by my Fiance is having a hard time right now as well. He has a job but is looking for a better one that pays more. He has been on two interviews and unfortunately no luck. He just had one and should be finding out within a week.. Anyways I feel like everything happens for a reason. Your hunnie will find a job and a good one. If he didnt get this one its just not the perfect fit, but you two will find it. Keep your head up and believe that everything will work it self out.. It helps me relax when wehave $ issues. Good luck ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2006

@canthugallcats: Yea it’s pretty bad, he didn’t leave on good terms and through really no fault of his own.  His boss had it out for him from the beginning for being 25 and having the other owner do the hiring.  The new job is a private practice and he can only get self-pay clients so there’s no way he can survive in this economy with it.

That’s good you’re Darling Husband is taking that approach, even if it’s not full-hearted.  Anything to keep the spirits up is what I say!  I can’t wait til this crappy economy turns it’s big ol’ booty around.

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

So sorry to hear.  J and I recently got excited about him getting a job. We were both really confident about it.  The guy ended being a complete asshole and didn’t even give him the time of day.  J looked so discouraged.  It broke my heart.

I wish you and your Darling Husband the best of luck.  It’s tough out there.

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m so sorry! I completely empathize! I’m currently jobless (well I’m working part time as a substitute teacher but that’s hit or miss) and it sucks! I know how tough it is to get your hopes up and then have them dashed. It’s such a tough situation to be in and can really take a toll on one’s self esteem. Unfortunatly, the economy just sucks right now and jobs are scarce ๐Ÿ™ Things will turn around eventually!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

So sorry ๐Ÿ™ Finding a job in this economy is no easy task. Sending lots of good thoughts and hugs to you and Fiance. * HUGS *

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