(Closed) he didn't propose on our mini-vacations. Not surprised :(

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 18
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Sugar bee

@lsimpson:  Ohhh, that sucks that you’re disappointed. I have the same issue with my Fiance when I try to leave things alone so he can show me something he takes too damn long! He and I obviously live on different timelines and it is frustrating sometimes. So I feel your pain. I’m with you though, if he’s not ready yet then he souldn’t be telling you he can’t wait to have kids. That’s a tease. Men are dense sometimes! Crossing my fingers it happens for you soon. 🙂

Post # 19
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

Don’t be too dissapointed…I went to the maldives with my Fiance and assumed it was a certainty. Even the guy at airport customs when we got back asked if I got engaged. I said ‘no’ in a really grumpy voice and stomped off! It took him 3 more years to propose but we are in a much better place finacially and have grown up a lot as people. Don’t dispair, I’m sure he’ll do it…he might just take his own sweet time about it.

Post # 20
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Helper bee

I’m a little jelly. That place looks awesome. honestly if he knows you want kids in a marriage I’d ask him to lay off the kids talk. He kinda reminds me of my ex.

His go to excuse was being too young, yet he had no problem talking about kids and names he wanted. Just squirmed whenever marriage was brought up. Too young for marriage but not kid talk apparently. Even though both are equally major commitments, I get your frustration.

 

Post # 21
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247 posts
Helper bee

@lsimpson:  Im hearing you unfortunatly 🙁

 

My SO went to the extreme of actually TELLING his best FRIENDS we would get married before we went away this September.. and since then, heeeaps of loaded talk but no actual proposal.

I know it’ll happen but as were both around 40 and have kids from previous relationships, he isnt in a hurry.

Me? I just want ‘that’ commitment as he’s the one.

I could seriously SMACK him Yell

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