He disrespected me…again!!!

posted 2 months ago in Emotional
Post # 16
5967 posts
Bee Keeper

I can’t believe you’re shitting on other women who don’t like porn in their relationship (“let him live a little…hehe”), but you’re a glorified servant in your own relationship. He texted you a picture of groceries so you drop everything to go shopping and rush home to make him dinner? Dear lord bee. 

Post # 17
2543 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

So you haven’t caught them doing it yet?

Post # 18
7692 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Sooooo…. tell me more about this creamy sausage pasta…?

Post # 19
421 posts
Helper bee

Creamy sausage pasta + sex noises = not a mental image I needed in my life.

Post # 20
240 posts
Helper bee

Yikes. It sounds like he treats you like his employee instead of girl friend. He behaves like an immature child and has a mental list of nice things he’s done to be a passive aggressive ass. I can’t think of a single reason his behaviour should be acceptable to you… what are you hoping to accomplish by staying with him? Do you see yourself wanting to relive this pattern for the rest of your life?In your shoes I’d start getting things in order (savings, new job, living arrangements) to extricate myself from this situation.

Post # 21
89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 1995

Aren’t you the bee that was going to try to catch your fiance having sex with the employee in the bathroom?  I guess you didn’t catch them since you are still in the relationship. So he can’t cook and sent you a photo of groceries. Why can’t he order takeout/delivery?

Do you enjoy this level of drama in your life? 

Post # 22
83 posts
Worker bee

🤔🤔🤔 can someone fill me in? What is this Sex Noise Bathroom everyone’s talking about? I don’t see that OP has any other threads ):

Post # 23
4810 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

He disrespects you because you let him. Why on earth did you go running to the store to buy him food because he sent you a photo of groceries? He doesn’t cook? He can go hungry then or order a pizza. Are you going to spend your life leaving things to go buy him food? Have some self respect.

Post # 24
2901 posts
Sugar bee

Now is the time to send him photos of an ironing board, a vacuum cleaner, a duster, some sink cleaner and a mop. If he hasn’t cleaned the house/appartment by the time you get home send him a photo of you leaving with a suitcase.

Post # 25
1559 posts
Bumble bee

Wow he sounds horrendous. Why are you with this guy?

Post # 29
269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Honey you are allowing him do this shit to you.

if my husband told me to leave my fun night out to buy and make him food by sending me pic of the grocery list, he would have received the middle finger emoji right back, and a link to download the Uber Eats app. Luckily he’d never dream of pulling that 


Post # 30
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

Leave his loser ass. 

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