(Closed) He doesn’t wanna invite his family!

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Invite his family?
    yes : (3 votes)
    19 %
    no : (13 votes)
    81 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    262 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 1969

    @MrsFerris: I have a similiar problem with my IL: they actually boycotted the wedding so I completely understand. I would suggest handing it how I am currently handling my IL: I leave it completley up to Darling Husband. If your Fiance wants to invite them then completley support that, if he doesnt, completely support that decision. Just have a heart to heart with him and let him know that while you appeicate that he is trying to save your feelings you really want/ and will support him doing whatever he wants to. Then leave the decision in his court 🙂 Good luck 🙂

    Post # 4
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    8353 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2011

    If you Fiance doesn’t want to invite them, then you should respect his wishes and not invite them. You can invite more of your mutual friends. Your wedding should be a happy day for both of you, and from what you have stated, it would be more drama than it would be worth to try to deal with his family. You can always invite them later, if your Fiance changes his mind and/or things change between you and his family.

    Post # 5
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    61 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think that it is entirely up to your Fiance. It is his family and if he doesn’t want to invite them, that is his choice.

    Post # 6
    Member
    7413 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    If he says no, leave it alone. Clearly he knows more than you and is not anticpating a good result.

    Post # 7
    Member
    390 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    @MrsFerris: I haven’t read the PPs responses, but if your fiance doesn’t want them there I DEFINTELY wouldn’t invite them (if I were you). Calling you a prostitute to his family and saying you are doing drugs is waaaaaay beyond the acceptable line of IL drama. Don’t worry about it, they would probably ruin the wedding anyway, or trash talk about it afterward. Good luck

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