(Closed) he doesn't want marriage! :( please read!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

I can’t understand your writing, but I’m very sorry that your boyfriend doesn’t want to marry you. I’m not sure what advice to give…

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Your post are very hard to understand. From all of your post it sounds like your bf isn’t ready for marriage. Probably too immature for parenthood. There’s no way to know if he’ll ever be ready. You have to decide if that’s something you can live with. 

Post # 7
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Helper bee

From this one, and your past threads, it honestly sounds like he’s stringing you along. I’m not sure of your age (it might be lost somewhere in your post, not sure), but you definitely don’t sound ready to have children, in my opinion. 

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Your posts would be easier to read if you used proper grammar, spelling, and formatting. It gets unclear who is saying what and what they’re saying.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

@cmbr:  +1 this is exactly what I was going to say but phrased better lol

I’m pretty sure I understand the gist and it sounds like he’s not planning on marrying you. He doesn’t want to get married but still wants you so he’s confusing you & trying to get you to stay by saying he will propose eventually. If marriage is a dealbreaker, you should leave him before he actually does try to get you pregnant in order to keep you.

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@xoxlovemeforeverxox:  it doesn’t sound like he’s even mature enough to have a real conversation about your future together, never mind mature enough to get married or have kids. As PP said, I’m not sure how old you both are, but I would consider how strongly you want to get married and whether or not your and his goals are in line. I would suggest having another conversation with him, but from this and your previous posts, I’m not sure that another conversation would get you anywhere 

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@xoxlovemeforeverxox:  also – make sure you’re in control of your own birth control (pill, shot, patch, etc.) if he’s “joking” about getting you pregnant. 

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2013

@xoxlovemeforeverxox:  Not really understanding your post… but one piece of advice – if he says he doesn’t want to get married, believe him and move on.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

You two don’t seem ready to get married.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@cmbr:  what she said

Post # 15
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

Dump that guy and RUN! He doesn’t want a wife, he wants a BABY MAMA!

Also, I had a guy try to get me pregnant once so I wouldn’t leave. It didn’t work, but he confessed to it as I was leaving! He’d been throwing away some of my pills (so I would see the pack and go “Oh, I must have taken it today”) And he poked holes in the condoms!

I am SO lucky I got out of that mess!

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