- 1 year ago
My FH ended things today, 8 days before our 4 year anniversary, and a month and 12 days before our wedding.
Ladies, sometimes the “perfect” ring and dream proposal mean absolutely nothing.
A man can still look into your eyes a little over a month before your wedding, (first one of two) and tell you that he’ll always love you, you’re his best friend, but he doesn’t love you completely for who you are, and you deserve to find a man who truly loves you.
I have to give it to him- he was very kind.
He’s broken up with me a few times. I should have let him go the very first time. I fought for this, oh how I fought for this, and now I am ashamed.
I’m older. I feel like I will never find my husband and life mate, but at the same time, I guess I’m ok with that.
don’t do what I did, if you just got engaged: don’t let anxiety have you spend far too much time on this site,
connect with your significant other. Work on yourself. Spending too much time here is a sign. I was so anxious about my relationship, the only place I could believe it might be okay was here, in fantasy-wedding land.
it wasn’t okay.
If someone could leave me now, how could he possibly go through life with me?
Oddly, I feel somewhat relieved. I think I always knew deep, deep down that he wasn’t fully in this with me.
I hope I’ll be back here someday, years from now, to update that I found my love, and that I am grateful this happened,
and to post my engagement story and ring
Thanks for being so awesome, bees.