He ended it just now.

posted 1 year ago in Emotional
Post # 2
Member
7815 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Oh, Bee. I am so sorry. Sending hugs. I hope you can make self care a priority for now. 

Post # 3
Member
124 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

Bee I feel for you reading this post and I’m so sorry you’re going through this right now. Sending tons of hugs your way, you know we have your back here! 

Post # 4
Member
1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2021 - Glacier National Park-Montana

You completely will find him bee.  Keep putting yourself out there. I’m so sorry you’re going through this.  

Post # 5
Member
3304 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

View original reply
ahsoka :  aww it’s pretty shitty of him to bail so close to your wedding. If he really felt that way he could have broken it off any time within the last 4 years! Of course you fought for the relationship but he knew his own internal feelings and you didn’t force him to stay, he should have insisted before. I’m so sorry hon!

Post # 6
Member
420 posts
Helper bee

View original reply
ahsoka :  

sending you the biggest hugs. Never forget that you are an incredible woman and you deserve nothing but happiness and someone who wants to be there for you fully and completely. 

You have nothing to be ashamed for – engagements are broken; you can hold your head up high, and know you have it your all. You gave him perhaps more than he deserved – but that is nothing to be ashamed of.

It’s doesn’t matter if you are older or younger – you’ll find what you want when you least expect it. I felt this way as well when I divorced at 28… and here I am on this site, planning to be married again at 41. 

Allow yourself the time and space you need to mourn your relationship, and then redefine what you want out of life. This is your time to be selfish and focus on your wants and needs.

 

 

Post # 7
Member
2019 posts
Buzzing bee

Oh my gosh, I’m so sorry bee 🙁 That is downright heartbreaking.

I’m so sorry this happened and I’m sure you’re hurting badly right now. Just know that it’s better he ended it now rather than after you were married. You’re so much better off calling it quits at this time.

If he has broken up with you a couple times, it may have been a relief for you when he just now ended it for good before the marriage happened. Otherwise, you would always be waiting for the other shoe to drop, wondering if he would back out again. You deserve better than that.

I know you may not believe it now, but you will find someone else, bee. There will be another man out there who is just perfect for you!

But don’t worry about that at this time. Just worry about you and your healing. There is NOTHING wrong with being single and it’s never too late to find yourself and find love again!

 

Post # 8
Member
1498 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2021

View original reply
ahsoka :  💔 so sorry to read this bee. I agree with PPs that now is the time to focus on loving yourself. Your partner will find you when the time is right. It’s never too late for love. 

Post # 9
Member
2027 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

View original reply
ahsoka :  Sorry to hear this but this site has nothing to do with your relationship unless there’s already issues there. I hope you find your mate.

Post # 10
Member
1445 posts
Bumble bee

Dear lady, you have my utmost sympathy. I am so sorry this happened.

It is hard to hear right now but do not give up on love. Ever.

I do hope you come back one day even just to update us all on how you are feeling and what you are up to.

Take care of yourself.

Post # 11
Member
5170 posts
Bee Keeper

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. Be easy on yourself and dont indulge in any “I should have done x” thoughts.  And I’m sure youre not “too old” to find someone else and when that happens you’ll know that you shouldn’t have to fight for a relationship. 

Post # 12
Member
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2020

I am so, so sorry. I can’t imagine what you are going through. Please keep us updated. It may be a blessing in disguise that you know this now and aren’t in an unhappy marriage down the road. Wishing you peace and comfort 

Post # 13
Member
3057 posts
Sugar bee

So sorry to hear, bee!! 

Post # 14
Member
275 posts
Helper bee

I’m terribly sorry. You looked beautiful in your gown and your and his rings were truly stunning. It must be such a shock. I’m so sorry that you’re going through this.

Leave a comment


Find Amazing Vendors