(Closed) He finally listened and I’M ENGAGED!

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 169
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

This thread = best way to keep up with my day-long caffeine high

Post # 170
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I can’t… no I can’t…

Post # 171
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@aleeshabobeesha: I was slightly worried someone would take me serious. 🙂

Post # 172
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

this thread has got me totally addicted to the bee!! although it makes my head hurt i cannot help but read haha

Post # 173
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I want my 20 minutes back!

Post # 174
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Wow!!  And here I am 5 years later still waiting.  I must be crazy by your standards.  But hey I have standards.  I want him to propose because he can’t live without me not because he doesn’t want my suicide on his hands.  But……………………Best Wishes…..and dude GOOD LUCK!!!

Post # 175
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@amyisnice: I love your logic… If my Fiance hadn’t already proposed I would have to give it a go 😉

Post # 176
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@hopetobe: I am glad you did some soul searching! Take your extra time to get to know each other really well.

Post # 177
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Sugar bee

@hopetobe: Okay. You know you just said this to bump your thread and I am buying into it by bumping too but honestly, your story doesn’t hold water and in the immortal words of Judge Judy ‘If it doesn’t make sense, it’s not true’ There, I’ve said what I think a whole bunch of bees have been saying.

Post # 179
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Wow. Is this real?

Post # 180
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’m 2 hours from taking my last last final!! WOOHOO..so I thought i’d check back on this.  I think the OP handled all the responses pretty well.  It’s difficult for someone to be told that they’re moving too fast or isn’t ready for marriage..etc.  Good job for keeping it cool!

Beside the drama of it all..if you have an honest loving relationship with your new Fiance, don’t let others make you doubt the relationship.  Mrs. Plum got engaged after just 2 months..and so did my hubby and I.  It can work.. I still think you should be financially ready not living off of savings from your parents’ help..but your life is yours to live..everyone here gave you something to think about so hopefully you will take some time to think it over and talk to your new fiance.  Essentially he loves you and willing to do whatever makes you happy…maybe you can compromise and have a long engagement..:)  though I can attest to long engagement not so much fun…at least for me. 

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