(Closed) He Gave Me A Diamond Ring, So Why Am I Sad?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

?!?!?!?!?!

I don’t blame you for being confused and upset. And he just was completely silent when he gave it to you?

???

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Ouch. I think some guys really just do not think about how this things can be interpreted. Sorry you are going through this.

Post # 5
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

I am confused and upset for you!!!

Can you talk to him about it?

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Geez that sounds like a cruel joke! Men can be so clueless! The fact that he actually said “It isn’t meant to be worn as an engagement ring” is what really sucks because it means he knows that you were hoping for 🙁

I would have been really upset too. I probably wouldn’t have kept it together as well as you did. Very confusing, that’s for sure. Sorry you’re so disappointed 🙁

 

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Thats crazyness.  I think you definitely need to talk to him about it.  Is it supposed to be a promise ring?  What did he expect you to think?  Please find out and let me know bc I am totally thrown for a loop here!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Um, wtf. It’s too big to be an E-ring? You buy your SERIOUS GIRLFRIEND a diamond ring and it’s not an e-ring? Is he clueless?!

dude that’s weird. You just…don’t do that. I’m sorry CurlyDreamer! That just seems cruel and a very mean tease! I’m sure his heart was in the right place…definitely a dumb guy move. 

Mull it over for a few days. If it still bugs you, I think you’ll have to talk to him about it. =

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

awwww keep your head hope. boys are just slow sometimes… i’m sure he meant to do a sweet gesture, not thinking how sad it would make you feel.

he will propose when  he’s ready, us girls just have to be patient! 😛

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Um. Yeah. I agree w/EJS.

Dumb men!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Wow this happened with my ex.  He gave me a bridal set that was nothing I could have ever wanted, and left it in the bathroom for me to find!!  I was confused and we blew up into an argument.  Needless to say we lasted maybe 4 months after that.

Post # 12
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2009

I think this gift deserves a more in-depth talk.  It seems a bit unsettling!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

It’s a bit bizarre, especially since he’s aware that it looks like an engagement ring.  I would just be blunt and ask him why he got you a ring that looks like an engagement ring but isn’t.  How are you supposed to wear it?  People are just going to notice and ask you and you’re going to have to explain the bizarre story 10,000 times.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I don’t get it either, I probably wouldn’t of been as composed as you seem to have been.  I would of asked him what he was thinking. 

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I think you need to talk to him. Why in the H would he buy you a ring he knew looked like an engagement ring? That’s just mean. I think you need to get to the bottom of this and he should know you’re upset about it.

Post # 16
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Ditto to Mrs. DG’s suggestion.  Time for a serious talk.   

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