(Closed) He Gave Me His Spare Key To His Apt. Meaning?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
1269 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2016

I’d ask him. Each person who will post is likely to have a different idea of what it might mean. Only he will know what his inner thought process was on this.

Post # 3
1042 posts
Bumble bee

It means he wants you to come and go without him having to be there to let you in or to lock up after you. 


and he also trusts that you’re not going steal his shit

Post # 4
4253 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

To me giving someone a spare key indicates full trust and a step up in the serious aspect of your relationship.  It does seem early for this kind of thing.  2 months in isn’t that long…are you sure you feel ready for this?  Do you feel like you have complete trust with him?

Post # 5
302 posts
Helper bee

exactly the same thing happened to me… Nearly 4 years ago. we are now 3 months married πŸ™‚ it’s a good thing – I took as an invitation to come and go as I pleased. Worked out well, at the time I was working part time and he was working full-time. I had time to do his laundry and cook for him. πŸ™‚ I wasn’t living with him but I’m sure it was one of the things he greatly loved about me. It was my way of taking care of him (not that I had to of course) 

Post # 6
1444 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I’m not sure when Darling Husband gave me a key, but I moved in 3 months after our first date, so probably a couple weeks before that πŸ˜›

I’d just take it as a good sign and let the relationship keep progressing naturally, but if you want to ask him about it, go for it. Have you talked about exclusivity? Have either of you said I love you yet?

Post # 7
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

It means he trusts you with a key to his place. I wouldn’t read more or less into it 

Post # 8
901 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I got bf’s key just a few months into it too. He said it was for me if I wanted to hang out at his house when he was at work. He added in “It would also be nice to come home from work and you surprise me by being there.” :p

Post # 11
933 posts
Busy bee

Darling Husband gave me a key to his place maybe a month after dating. That way I could come over whenever. (I lived with my parents at the time.) 

Post # 12
5923 posts
Bee Keeper

A. He wants you to water his plants while he’s away

B. He wants you to feed his cat/ walk his dog.

C. He’s hoping to come home and find you waiting to surprise him wearing nothing but high heels.

D. He trusts that you won’t steal or snoop and wants to give you his key as a show of this trust.

E. He’s too shy to say “I love you” yet and is working up the nerve to, but wanted to show you in some way that he’s developing these feelings and wants your relationship to grow.

F. All of the above.

You know him better than we do OP, you pick

Post # 14
629 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

It means he doesn’t want to Pause his PS4 when you’re at the door anymore, so you can let yourself in πŸ˜‰

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