(Closed) He has lost interest, what to do?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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904 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I don’t have much advice but I’m really sorry you’re going through this. 🙁 Have you tried talking to him about how you’re feeling? Or any chance you could pick a different location and make your wedding different? 

Post # 5
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320 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Remind your SO that it is your wedding and should be as special as you both want it to be.

Even if no one else cares, you do!

We spent a ton of money and incorporated all we wanted because we wanted to.

Pictures are forever, and you only get one day.

Do what makes you happy and on your special day, smile your biggest smile at his brother and his brother’s wife.

Never allow anyone to take away your happiness.

 

Post # 6
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193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2015

    I’m sorry you’re going though this, it’s not fair that your Future Brother-In-Law asked if it was okay, then did it anyway. Would you be alright with putting your wedding off for a bit? I know it sounds really cold hearted to even say anything like that, but my Fiance and I had taked about getting married in aug 2011- and days after we desided (before we told anyone) his cousen announces to the family he’s engaged, and getting married that month. Since Fiance and I had been married before, we kept silent about it, and let them have their moment. Now, another one of his fam is engaged, and his mom asked me what I would do if they pick our month (scream!)- our families are all over, so getting together for weddings is a huge deal. 

  I can see why he would be hurt, and it’s not fair to you to be put on the back burner. Your wedding needs to be about you and him, not a chore or an after thought. It’s horrible his family is acting like this!! 

 

Post # 7
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193 posts
Blushing bee

Could you have the wedding in your country?

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