Post # 32
- Wedding: August 2010 - Stage 6 Steiner Studios
Congrats! I hope it happens for your this weekend. Even if it’s not a complete surprise, you’ll still love and appreciate the proposal! Maybe you’ll even remember it better than if it’s a total surprise. Good luck and let us know what happens!!
Post # 33
So I packed a nice picnic with sandwiches and wine and got our uncooperative dog ready to go. My bf came home and complained a bit about being tired but we went off without our uncooperative dog. As soon as we got there he started whining about the grass and bugs ect ect. Before I finished eatting I just wanted to run home and forget about the whole thing. He just whinned his way through the whole evening and I realized that while he has never been a romantic he associates romance with sex or it is romantic if your having sex which just pissed me off.
Then he wanted to talk about his plans tomorrow – I don’t even care at this point if he does or doesn’t propose – I feel like this has been dragged out and talked to death and that the truly important part of my life is on the way.
I have an interview to med school – yeah!
Is it wrong to be indifferent at this point? Does it mean something is wrong and we shouldn’t be together at this point? What do you all think? Remember we have been together 6 and a half years.
I am so glad I have this board to use a vent – sorry to you all for the vents…
Post # 34
I don’t think it’s wrong to be indifferent. It’s been a long stressful week! It happens to a lot of women about wedding planning too (no way! you say, but it happens. you get to a point and you just want it to be OVER and you don’t even care what happens anymore lol) Try to let it go best as you can and try to resume normal life. I know it must be hard. I am SO SO grateful that I was totally oblivious to my husband planning his proposal.
Post # 35
((HUGS)) totally agree with the pp!!
Post # 36
Oh my goodness, i love this post. It’s like a soap opera
Post # 37
i suggest you tie him to the bedframe and slap him around a bit… might not get you the ring but at least you both should feel better 🙂
sending hugs – i cant imagine how frustrating it is for you
Post # 38
i agree with eloping hahahaha but my mind might be way in the gutter on that one :-P.i have moments i whine and complain and become a spoiled brat hoping he would just give up and say fine heres the ring haha but then i realise i wouldnt want it that way.good luck though I hope you get it soon.i still have 3 longgggggggggg months
Post # 39
MY BF or I guess now Fiance PROPOSED!!!
I woke up on Saturday and he was like lets go we need to leave . I was so confused I was like I need to get my contacts from the doctor and where are we going – I didn’t know we had plans.
We rushed off for Philadelphia and stayed through Sunday. He proposed Sunday morning after I ruined 3 attempts Saturday night. It was so cute I heard him russling around but didn’t care to wake up so I ignored him. He was trying to make me a green tea latte in the hotel room. Finally I rolled over and opened my eyes to see him sitting there next to me holding the box in one hand and the tea in the other with some stupid grin. I was like hey watcha doing. He stammers sometimes so I expected stammering but I didn’t expect him to be at a loss of words. Finally he opened the box and reached for my hand to put the ring on. I then said excuse me aren’t you suppose to ask something. He then says Will YOU MARRY ME? and I was speechless and reached for the ring the he says aren’t you supposed to respond. So then I said YES and he slipped my gorgeous ring onto my finger and we headed out for a day of sight seeing.
I AM SUPER SUPER SUPER EXCITED!!!!!!
Post # 40
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! HOW EXCITING WHERE ARE THE PICTURES?!
Post # 42
Where are your pictures???
Post # 43
Congratulations at least your wait wasnt toooo long 🙂
Post # 44
I saw your post in the “anonymous letters” thread and wanted to ask, is everything okay?
Post # 45
YEA!!! I’m so excited for you!! Patience is a virtue isn’t it or maybe not for those still waiting!! CONGRATS and happy planning!