(Closed) He hasn't got the ring yet…

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Maybe he has and he is waiting for a special moment to propose. Or are you saying you know for sure that he has not?

We had originally talked about wedding/rings etc in September. He went shopping in January and proposed three weeks later. There really is no typical though.

Hang in there!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Maybe he’s just saving up because the rings you liked we’re more expensive then he expected?

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

It hasn’t been all that long… (though I know every day feels like an age when you’re waiting for something).

 

Men tend to do things a lot lot lot more slowly than women… maybe he’s still browsing or saving up or something.

 

This probably wasn’t any comfort but I wish you the best x (and a chat around may sounds like a plan)

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

@Anamenoonehas:  Aww it sucks that you’ve been waiting like that (and lol I know I’ll be just as crazy when it comes to it).

 

But looking at rings is a step! And January could be when he /actually/ starting thinking about it as more than a hypothetical. So it is possible there’s something in the works.

 

Keep yourself strong and positive just until may and know that everyone on the bee is rooting for you 8D

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo

@Anamenoonehas:  Ooh what’s the tattoo?

 

I really wish I could type something that would instantly lift your spirits and make you feel better about waiting 🙁 I can’t even really empathise cause I know I’m a long long way away from a proposal.

 

Maybe if you’re feeling truly awful then an earlier chat might be appropriate? Like, does he know that you’re trying to keep quiet until May? Did he know about that walk date?

Perhaps asking what his intentions were when he took you to the ring shop?

 

I just really hope things work out for you ((hugs))

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