Help! He hasn't told his parents about the engagement. Should I be worried?

posted 3 years ago in Engagement
Post # 17
1572 posts
Bumble bee

Maybe he’s suddenly nervous. Both Fiance and I got last minute nerves just before telling people. But we pushed through it and just did it, really low key – I had coffee with my mum, he was helping his brother move house with his parents haha. Everyone was happy for us so not sure where the jitters came from, just out of the blue. So maybe it’s that?

Post # 18
165 posts
Blushing bee

newnath :  this is strange and you are right to feel weird about it.. hopefully by now he’s told his parents.. if not, let him know how this is making you feel uneasy

Post # 19
4233 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Hotel Ballroom

That would make me a little uneasy too. Keep us posted!

Post # 20
8264 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

newnath :  

Well I think it very odd. ..” we talked about it again and he ..mentioned that we don’t have to rush into telling them”

Rush into ” What a strange way to put it . It’s already a  fait accompli, not a decision  to be put off and thought about . I’d be anxious too  and worry that  was he was regretting  or at least embarrassed about it for some reason.

I would have already told my own parents though ,I’d have called or or Skyped or something . What’s so traditional about ‘in person’ if you dont live  close?  

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