(Closed) He is intentionally torturing me

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

You know that he has the ring? That sucks; my Fiance wouldn’t be able to get away with that haha.

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

Lol, honestly I’d be thinking that something is afoot… maybe his Proposal will somehow tie into a Movie Theme ?

 

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2014

I don’t think it would be bad for you to say, “I want you to be able to propose in the way you want to, in your own time. I haven’t brought it up for that reason. But seeing these movies makes it really hard! Want to watch Mythbusters/basketball/NCIS instead?”

Post # 6
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Bumble bee

@MissGreyhound:  girl that movie killed me. i was rooting AGAINST them by the end. the ruby, university of michigan, the grad school, gah! my mother insisted we watch it together. bad idea!

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Not gonna lie that’s sorta funny… at least you know it’s coming.

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY

Knowing he has the ring would KILL me. WTf!!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee

Mine has the ring too.  I don’t know what’s holding him up.  I’ve tried not to say anything.  He even showed me the ring but still NOTHING.  This weekend he even stopped by the jewelery store and had them size me.  I don’t need some special romantic moment that he has to plan.  I just want simple and honest and loving between us.  That’s it.  In the meantime.. yes it does feel like torture.  I feel that when he brings it up and still won’t do anything about it that he’s dangling a carrot in front of my face.  I’m not a patient person by nature so the waiting is now starting to make me angry.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Ugh that is torture! Tell him only action and horror movies until that ring is on your finger! The good thing is at least you know he has the ring! I on the other hand am going bonkers because I have no idea if he has the ring or has even purchased it! That ring will be on your finger before you know it!

Post # 13
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Bumble bee

@MissGreyhound:  hehehe yea the whole cheating on each other thing killed it for me too! My SO was audibly like love will win out while poking me. Gah they love to torture us!

I say he can joke with me so long as i can stick my ice cold feet under him with no warning =0p

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@MissGreyhound:  It’s time for him to give it up!! You don’t need a huge insane proposal, just propose! If he knows how he wants to do it, get the show on the road. Ugh that would drive me insane! You are a much better woman than me!

Post # 16
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@MissGreyhound:  Since he’s had it so long, this can only mean it’s coming soon!

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