(Closed) He just confuses me.

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
302 posts
Helper bee

Your story sounds very similar to mine–dating for 4+ years now, it seems we are the same age, or just about, and we have discussed marriage for about a year or so and are looking for houses now.  We have talked many times about it but i feel like lately I have just been annoying him about it.  He gave me a sort-of timeline but I am not so sure if he will stick to it or not, and I think that is why I ask him about it fairly often.  It sucks, but we just have to be patient.  I think if you set a date in your head in which you won’t say anything by, that will help to keep you sane.  If he hasn’t done it or said anything to make you think he will do it by then, then you can talk to him again.  Make sure its like 2 or 3 months out at least.  I think guys need time to prepare for this–they want to make sure it is a surprise.  They want to think you are not thinking about it (like that happens, ha!) so they can “catch you off guard”. It sucks just waiting around, but the less you talk about it, the more the guys seem to warm up to it.  Good luck!!!

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