(Closed) He keeps asking me for help/input… but I’m out of material.

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
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  • Wedding: August 2012

You’re sweet to try and cheer him up, but he might need some professional counseling.  You’re right- he has to be happy with himself or he will never be able to be happy with someone.  Even if he is happy in a relationship, the person he is with might feel the pressure of being his only source of happiness- and that is just too much for any one person to bear!

As for other distractions… do you guys volunteer?  I met some pretty cool, interesting, and motivated people by volunteering at a local animal shelter.  It was nice to meet others with similar interests 🙂  What about intramural sports?  I met Fiance through an adult rugby league, and one of the reasons we hit it off so well is that we share that common interest. 

He needs to work on his own happiness, but he also needs to get out there & meet people!

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