Post # 1
My Fiance and I have sex maybe 2-3 times / week and I know he regularly masturabates in the morning and late at night… Tonight we had sex… and just an hour later he was rialed up and wanting to go at it again. I turned him down and asked him to take care of it on his own… Anyone have tips for polar opposites in the ‘sexual frequency’ department?
Post # 3
- Wedding: July 2014 - saint patricks parish
I’m with you on that. I mean if I let him we would do it like 100 times a day. me I’m not always turned on but heres what I usually do I usually start then start passing out he’ll get the point. or you can um service him and that will help. I heard a few ladies are taking sex stimulents like pandora or others you can find at a porn store. but thats what I usually do anyway.
Post # 4
I suppose I’m on the opposite end of this — I’d go 10,000 times a day if he could keep up.
Geeze, I wouldn’t even know what to do. Maybe give him a bit of assistance? You don’t need to have sex to help him out.
Post # 5
My SO is the same he would go all day every day if I was up for it haha, tbh I think most blokes are more ahem active than uss ladies, normally I just assist him or just go to sleep he gets the message lol. It is hard tho so I feel your pain hun xx
Post # 6
Maybe we could make a sharing site in which men who want it all the time but their women don’t, could meet up with the women who want to go far more than their men. All my life I’ve had a higher sex drive than any man I’ve been with…I’m 53 and it’s never slowed down. My Darling Husband is 38 and has a hard time keeping up. Maybe someday menopause will change things. Bummer.
Post # 7
@LivyLovesPonies: well providing you dont mind him taking care of it by himself then i think thats your solution! i mean, yes you can give him a hand (or a mouth :P) but ify ou arent in the mood for sex then i doubt youd be in the mood for daily blow jobs (well i wouldnt)
Post # 8
Just let him know you are not turning hum down but turning sex down. You have a lower sex drive than him and that is okay. Tell him when he wants and you don’t that you have ZERO problems with him helping himself out or maybe give him hand/blow jobs a few more times a week than usual. 🙂
Post # 9
its hard though, as the worst case scenario is she would start seeing it as a chore/ something she foes *for* him rather than a mutually pleasurable experience. I have a higher sex drive than my fi, and when hes not interested hes not interested. Im happy to er, get on with it myself as I think he might get a bit fed up if if he felt like he had to frequently finish me off
Post # 10
Darling Husband would love to do it several times a day, I’m more of a once a week girl. We used to do it more like 3-4 times a week until I got pregnant. Then we cut back a bit, and lately the exhaustion and stress have been weighing on me, so we have stuck with the 1-2 times a week. I feel bad, but Darling Husband doesn’t push it.
Post # 11
I also have the opposite problem. I like sex at least once a day, and prefer 2 , 3 or more times a day. However I do understand males have their limitations.
Post # 12
@lorie: Are you seriously suggesting having a website that condones cheating? Granted, there already is one…that’s a little immoral. Just sayin’
Post # 13
I’d enjoy it while it lasts. Or suggest he gets a new hobby. I sometimes struggle to tempt my Darling Husband away from his Xbox during his frequent 2-3hr marathon multi-player games with random online ppl.
Post # 14
@IzzyBear: Oh heavens no. A bit literal, are we?
Post # 15
@lorie: thank goodness haha. There is an actual website for people to find affairs so unfortunately there are people out there who would have meant what you posted. Glad to hear I haven’t come across one yet though!
Post # 16
we are in the same situation. he jerks morning and night and wants sex every day on top of it.
sometimes i’ll just climb in bed and pet him and nibble on his ears while he’s jerking it. he loves it. that way i don’t have to have sex all the time, but it’s still intimate and sensual.