He left me sick and alone at the hotel on NYE

posted 2 years ago in Engagement
Post # 151
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Buzzing bee

tiffanybruiser :  sounds like he doesn’t just have food poisoning, maybe he has man-food poisoning?  (Possibly more severe than a man-cold or the man-flu.)

Post # 152
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Sugar Beekeeper

Yes, he’s still trying to justify himself and his behavior in part by claiming he is sicker than you were. I’m not sure how he knows this since he was not, you know, there. 

Post # 153
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Helper bee

winterroasted :  Same happened to me! I was sick with stomach flu. My boyfriend at that time,  did not believe me that I am that sick and just went to sleep. He realized that was his big mistake until he found me on bathroom floor at 4 am, I spent the whole night there, sick and alone. He apologized, however that was a red flag that I let go. 

3 months later he went to see his friend who lives 3 hours away and told me it will be only him and his friend’s time, just playing golf during the day and grilling in his back yard after. I got food poisoning that night, tried to call him for comfort, he did not reply, and just texted back. He texted they are going to a neighbours party and said he will call later to check in but never did. I was so pissed off at him.

To my surprise he showed up at 8 am at home, said he was already sleeping when I called at 11 pm and I was too dramatic about food poisoning. It was very suspicious for me why wold he leave at 5 am to drive back 3 hours if he does not find my food poisoning something of a concern to him.. Needless to say, when we were breaking up and all the truth came out, turned out he did not drive for 3 hours to see a friend. He saw a girl that night and stayed in the same town with me…

Post # 154
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Blushing bee

I broke my leg when I was married to my ex. I literally could not walk for 8 weeks. During that time, my (then) husband decided it was a good time to take a trip 3 hours away and leave me for the weekend. Whenever I was sick during that marriage, he would literally get mad if I couldn’t get out of bed to clean or cook. He called me a whiner and that I was “moping” when I was sick. These red flags were available to be BEFORE I married him, but ignored them and married him anyway. He never changed, he only got worse as time went on. Don’t let this be you. 

Post # 155
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2018

I’d call it off, that’s just cold and doesn’t exactly show that he’s willing to care for you ‘in sickness or in health’.

Post # 156
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Busy bee

I am sorry this has happened to you. There is no way in a million years my fiance would ever do that to me. Definite red flag. Have you spoken to him about it since? 

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