(Closed) He left on a jet plane. Literally.

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2577 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Oh my gosh,


I am so, so sorry.

What a cowardly thing he has done.

Not much more to say- but big hugs from me.

Post # 4
25 posts
  • Wedding: January 2012

@kissme_cait:   Oh my gosh! What a CAD!…bet he’s cheating!

I’m sooo sorry…I know your heart is broken and  you’re too afraid to face others…but you know what…I’ll bet you a dozen donuts others will tell you they didn’t like him, but left their opions to selves….you’ll find the right support…and do NOT take him back! Please do yourself favor…save future total heartbreak should he come back…DO NOT do it!…can you imagine having babies and him flying off on jet plane?

Forget him! He’s a total coward and untrust worthy!…if you take him back, you’ll always wonder IF…or when…have fun selling your stuff and save the date to be with loved ones who truly support you…Go to Kauai and sooth your soul…take good frineds who love to laugh!

My husband is most precious man ever!…I met him when I was just 17 and had new born baby….the babys father did worse than fly away…he left me totally abandoned at the Pregnancy clinic…when I can out…he was gone…never heard from ever again!

I will say…he was very handsome!…had good steady job putting in windsheilds and still lives in same apartment 42 yrs later!

I thank GOD he left me!…The man who married me 39 yrs ago has provided me with all I’ve wanted…we have a beautiful home on acreage out in country…we have wonderful new RV and travel often….we go to the Florida Keys twice a year…we live in Oregon…where I’ve always wanted to live…move away from San Diego area, was too hot!

So…had the babys “father…aka sperm donor”” stuck around…I’d be living in a 1 bedroom apartment!…and NOT in a beautiful home!

AND…the man I married has worked for Motorola 38 yrs as a senior systems engineer….so…not trying to brag…but see what I mean…fate and tears lead me dowwn a differnt path…looking back, I think…wow! Whew! So glad he left me stranded!

He did me a huge favor!

hugs to you!…sorry you’re hurting right now…is shocking, I know…but you’ll look back one day just as I’ve done…and will scare you thinking you almost married the jerk!

Is too bad Scott Peterson didn’t do same to Laci…at least she and her baby Conner would be alive had he simply jetted off!

Post # 5
2158 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’m so sorry htis has happened to you. I know there’s nothing I can say to make the hurt go away, but please, if you feel the need to vent please do so

Post # 6
10714 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

omg =( HUGE HUG!!! Did he even say why!? =(

Post # 7
2947 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Oh gosh, so sorry! 🙁 You deserve so much better than this sorry coward.

Post # 8
1235 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Though it hurts, let me just say…BETTER YOU FOUND OUT NOW that he is a coward/dick/asshole/child-man then once you are legally bound to him.

Post # 9
868 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

This is the epitome of douchebaggery.  I’m so sorry you’re going through this, but you’re better off not being with someone who would do that to you 🙁

Post # 10
7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011


Where did he fly off to? Are you guys in an LDR?

I’m so sorry! You have every right to vent and feel whatever you need to feel. Thank God you found out all this now……

Post # 11
853 posts
Busy bee

I am so so very sorry! I can’t imagine what you must be going through right now, and I totally understand your need to reach out. And while I know that words will be of no comfort at the moment, I once heard a line that was very profound, and I think (that in time) it is something you might hold onto:

‘Losing someone you love is hard enough, but losing yourself in the process is a thousand times harder.’ 

Don’t forget who you are, and keep sight of your own value and worth, things that nobody can ever take with them when they leave. Things that make you you. Sometimes comfort is realized in your own strength.



Post # 12
1629 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2012

No worries about venting at all! That is awful ):

I hope you feel up to talking to your friends about it soon. Also, he can either deal with the photographer or eat the cost himself. I know how everything looks when you are hurt and upset, but that is one burden that is easily dealt with. I would still let them know ASAP, though.

Post # 13
1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

So sorry that happened to you.My ex husband emailed me to tell me he didn’t want to be married anymore.We had a four month old baby and a 14 month old.At the time I didn’t understand why it had happened to me.I Didnt deserve it and you don’t either.I see him now and am so greatful that he left me. I have a man now that loves me and my children unconditionally.He is a coward,you will meet someone that will make you wonder what you ever saw in your ex.Hang in there,it is hard now,but it will get better.I promise.

Post # 15
4478 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’m so sorry for all you’re going through, sweetie.  All the pain you’re going through is understandable and completely justifiable.  You deserve better than all this.  In the end, it’ll all work out for the better, although it may be hard to see that at this moment.  Wishing you the best, and hugs.

Post # 16
204 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

What a total smeghead. Darlin’ you are better off. No woman needs such a spineless little worm around. I’m sure you can get your movies back from the brother. Heck, he may even be sympathetic given the lousy way his pathetic brother has acted. Yeesh. What an ordeal. Take a shot of whiskey or an ambien and try to get some sleep, dear. Get together with some girlfriends this weekend. Eat something truly awful for you that tastes amazing. Deep fried twinkies are fabulous. Two tears in the bucket, darlin. That’s all he’s worth.

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