He left One month before the Wedding

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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4313 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

There’s no telling. Sounds like this guy has severe momma’s boy syndrome.  Sounds like you already ditched his number, now ditch the rest like he did you.  He doesn’t deserve anything more.

Post # 5
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388 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

You haven’t heard from him in a year? I don’t really understand.

Post # 6
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405 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@mockblock:  I’m confused as well.

Either way I would just move on from him. He seems to be a perpetual liar and not worth your time.

Post # 7
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1638 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Alex8120:  Dude, I would seriously Waiting To Exhale his clothing and burn that stuff.

Just kidding..Maybe.

 

He’s shown you that he does not want to be with you. Email him saying he has a set amount of time to come get his stuff or you will discard it. Then find a man who loves you.

 

Post # 8
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8455 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

@mockblock:  +1, were you guys together?  This seems very off and on.

Post # 10
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1505 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Ugh, I don’t even know what to say 🙁

I agree that you should move on and find someone who loves you. 

Post # 11
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7749 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@Alex8120:  ” And its been almost a year since our (supposed wedding) and he hasn’t even  contacted me.

I’m sorry, but this guy is gone. You need to put him behind you and look for someone else. Don’t reply if he contacts you again. He has treated you really badly, he doesn’t deserve even to talk to you again. Ship his stuff away and be done with him, and move on. Sorry, all I can say is some people aren’t all they pretend to be.

Post # 12
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845 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

I’m so sorry this happened to you. I can tell that you are even now shellshocked by this man and the near-marriage experience you had. It is a loss and it is traumatic – but count yourself lucky. He lied from the start, chances are he’d have lied to you through a whole marriage. And his dad who hates you for no reason? There is more to life than fussing about a man like this. Good riddance to bad rubbish. Ship his gear to him and start living your life. He has already taken too much of your time.

Post # 13
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1177 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

You dodged a bullet in not marrying this pathological liar. I know it’s traumatic, but maybe focusing on how much worse it could have been will help a little.

I would so burn every bit of his shit, though. Fuck the high road. 🙂

Post # 14
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1404 posts
Bumble bee

He left the relationship years ago.  He has a new life with a new girlfriend.

Post # 15
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1158 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

He sounds like a jerk to me. I think the only advice that anyone can give you is to move on. It seems like he already has… Get out there and date and enjoy life. Don’t waste another minute on this man. You deserve better.

Post # 16
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9674 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@geekspice:  +1.

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